Valentines day - how's this work?

Stick a post it note at her desk..

I was going to buy you a card, roses and chocolates but, decided that was a bit much...
... You seen the price of roses today?!!

What about a movie instead?
 
[FnG]magnolia;25697071 said:
This is terrible advice and should be ignored because ~ !! OH MY GOD I WISH MEN WERE SO ROMANTIC/CREEPY TO ME!! ~ is not a representative thing which most women generally feel.
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"Relationship advice: your life is not a Jennifer Aniston movie."

Love it when the sigrotor stars align.
 
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Hit her with a club and drag her back to your cave. That's how they used to do it anyway.

Just make sure not to shower or shave until valentines, it adds to the effect.
 
Approach her and bring up children, while making subtle hints that put emphasis on your masculinity.

If she gets the idea that you are a strong arm, fertile family man, you will certainly bag this one.
 
nick.lidgett said:
Seriously now look at it this way, you date some fluff at work bang her a few times and she doesnt accept your excuse that it "slipped" up her wrong'un. She fires you off and on monday you go into work and find out everybody knows you like sucking toes while wearing adult nappies. That would be a problem. Because now everybody hates you. :D
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I wouldn't want to work somewhere with the colleagues as narrow minded and judgemental as that. Isn't the point of dating someone at work so they will spread the word about your prowess and endearingly foibles?
 
I met my girlfriend at work and we've been together for 7 years now, I love being able to see her during the day, though we do have a very close relationship. It would be strange not working at the same company now.
 
RedvGreen said:
First valentines day that I'm single this year, so a bit new to this past time. There's a girl at work who I'm thinking of surprising valentines style, but to my knowledge, you have to do it stealthily and in a stalkery incognito style?

How does she know it's you and how is any date/relationship meant to progress from it? Or is it just a knee jerk thing and see if it leads somewhere?
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Doing it out of the blue could be classed as weird / stalkery. I'd suggest you start talking / flirting with her a little bit and let things build up a small step at a time. Once you've got her flirting back make a comment about going for a drink or food but nothing concrete ( do this a few days before valentines ) then go a little bit quieter / preoccupied but still slightly flirty/talkative. On V day just drop the bomb with flowers / card and a note saying 'So how about dinner next week?'

Totally none stalkery....
 
I got to say this thread has some epic comments in. Proper lol from me.

The marching band and balloons idea deffo seems the way forward imo :D
 
nick.lidgett said:
Seriously now look at it this way, you date some fluff at work bang her a few times and she doesnt accept your excuse that it "slipped" up her wrong'un. She fires you off and on monday you go into work and find out everybody knows you like sucking toes while wearing adult nappies. That would be a problem. Because now everybody hates you. :D
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This just made my day! So I guess this is what happened to you then? :D
 
Just be brave and ask her out for a drink. Women love a bit of confidence in men. Valentine's Day is very overrated, just ask her out whenever you feel upto it, doesn't have to be Valentine's. Plus, if she has gone out with you already, a Valentine's card would feel more natural to give her then.
 
Scrumpy_Jack said:
Just be brave and ask her out for a drink. Women love a bit of confidence in men. Valentine's Day is very overrated, just ask her out whenever you feel upto it, doesn't have to be Valentine's. Plus, if she has gone out with you already, a Valentine's card would feel more natural to give her then.
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I'd follow this idea.

The rest are, well... :p - Unless the marching band is actually wanted? I'll do a grade one recorder, and.. oh. :(
 
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