well just to clear everything up (and for my own sanity) this was the sequence of events
1. Sold Phone and Graphics Card on ebay to seperate people
2. Post Phone to guy who bought the graphics card by mistake
3. Realise my mistake and contact him. He replies saying no problem, want my graphics card asap. Will send phone on for postage money. PayPal him £20. In the meantime I ring parcelforce to see if I can get the phone back before its delivered and get told No!
4. Post Graphics Card to correct buyer
Parcelforce deliver Phone to wrong buyers neighbour
Parcelforce deliver Graphics Card the next day
Buyer suddenly goes quiet. Buyer of phone is understanding, but in the end I give refund as no idea what to do next. Parcelforce won't give me details of where the phone was actual delivered to.
Seller gets himself into a depressed state, hits the vodka, remortgages house and puts equity release all on red....it comes up black. Seller never posts on ocuk again