The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Update!
Swing and a miss webster!
Been speaking to her.
Asked her out for a drink or dinner annnnnnnd shes already seeing someone from our workplace!

Seems to be the story of my love life at the moment!
 
and onwards Captain Fatfish

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To the next fish!
 
Finally figured out why girls don't like me.

I look like this:

(For reference I have not had any pictures taken of me for over 3 years, so I had no real idea this is what I look like IRL)
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Set the last as desktop wallpaper. If that isn't inspiration I don't know what is!
 
I don't find anything too wrong with you tbf. You'r stature is big so its obvious that you look bigger. Obviously you can trim down some fat, but it seems to be evenly distributed. Also, are you very tall, or is the other woman very short?
 
6feet 8"

Look at my stomach!

I am 24 stone 3lb. I should be about 18 stone really. Which is a lot more than most people my age but given my height it is a healthy size.
 
Sod that, I'm 6ft 4 and not far off your weight, yet have a pretty damn fine partner (all drama stopped for now) and have had some good catches in the past too.

It's not about what you are, it's who you are.
If you're not a raving douche you'll be able to pull 20x as many women as an 18 stone version of you that's a knob. True story :)
 
mattyprice4004 said:
Sod that, I'm 6ft 4 and not far off your weight, yet have a pretty damn fine partner (all drama stopped for now) and have had some good catches in the past too.

It's not about what you are, it's who you are.
If you're not a raving douche you'll be able to pull 20x as many women as an 18 stone version of you that's a knob. True story :)
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I have to agree with this
 
Been going out with someone from OkCupid for about 6 weeks now, we see each other quite a lot and have already been away for a weekend together but she's going to Portugal for a month in a couple of weeks to see her family (was born there but moved here when she was a kid). She did plan this a long time ago and it's something she does yearly as she's still a student, I don't think I have anything to worry about and things have been going really well but it's a long time apart early on in a relationship. There always has to be a spanner in the works for me :p I was going to suggest going over for a few days as flights are cheap but I don't want to be seen as inviting myself along.
 
mattyprice4004 said:
Sod that, I'm 6ft 4 and not far off your weight, yet have a pretty damn fine partner (all drama stopped for now) and have had some good catches in the past too.

It's not about what you are, it's who you are.
If you're not a raving douche you'll be able to pull 20x as many women as an 18 stone version of you that's a knob. True story :)
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Although this is true, since you've had the ide, then lose the weight, get busy lifting, get stronger, at your height a good stature will be very attractive. You might as well lose the weight, as the self confidence you will gain at the same time will be immense.

Go for it. Be a man of a mountain, not just a mountain! Hodor, hodor, hodor.
 
Full scale thermonuclear war going on between my head and my heart right now. I've met a girl who must be a witch or something.

Don't want to lose my freedom but my head is exploding. :(

Alcohol not calming my brain down. Need Valium. Logic systems override failing. I've normally got absolute control of my emotional state. :mad: I might just disappear to the lakes for the weekend to clear my head.
 
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LoL. Yes mags, you're absolutely right. X x x

After last time round I became so independent and nonchalant that it's a bit of a shock. Head really hurts. I think I'm broken. :p
 
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