My Monk has 3 times your toughness and probably 2 times your elemental elite dps, yet without unity she still dies often on T5.
There is no equilibrium. The only reason you think there may be one is because you have pets to tank and kill for you, while you concentrate on clicking weapon racks, opening chests or watching a movie on the second screen.![]()
There is, it's just at a different point for each class. My two main chars are WD and Monk, so I know what you mean! Profiles below.
http://eu.battle.net/d3/en/profile/Makhaira-2486/hero/36248749
http://eu.battle.net/d3/en/profile/Makhaira-2486/hero/36248774