Girlfrend not wanting to drive to me anymore !

Rofflay said:
Why should he buy a car when she has one though? She is being unreasonable and the best bit is she is one of those birds who has a kid by another man too!??! Give give give typical women! Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids dont throw demands to men without baggage.


She should be lucky you are there putting up with her kid so i would call it a fair trade no?
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post of the year
 
I was dreaming while I drove the long straight road ahead,
Could taste your sweet kisses, your arms open wide
This fever for you was just burning me up inside

I drove all night to get to you
Is that all right?
I drove all night, crept in your room
Woke you from your sleep to make love to you
Is that all right?
I drove all night

What in this world
Keeps us from falling apart?
No matter where I go I hear
The beating of our one heart
 
She sounds like she wants rid and tbh if someone said that to me I wouldn't want to spend any more time with them.

From another perspective though I drive my wife everywhere as she doesn't drive. Sometimes I don't feel like driving and the nagging / sulking / expectancy has gotten on my nerves and caused arguments.
 
You don't have a car because you don't think it's worth the expense, but you're quite happy for her to drive to you, for her to drive you around, etc.? I can see why she has a problem with that.

Are you sure she wants you to drive her around all the time? Or is it more that she wants you to do your fair share (which, without a car, you can't currently do) and be less reliant on her?
 
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Good thread OP - bet you wish you could go back in time and deleted it before you posted it .

Tip from an old bloke - dump her then jump in every pair of knickers you can even if they are dogs.

Those Scrubs look like they have all pooed in their pant's - good job they are tucked in:rolleyes:

Davew
 
DXP55 said:
Good thread OP - bet you wish you could go back in time and deleted it before you posted it .

Tip from an old bloke - dump her then jump in every pair of knickers you can even if they are dogs.

Those Scrubs look like they have all pooed in their pant's - good job they are tucked in:rolleyes:

Davew
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So instead of growing up, getting the car and trying to fix a relationship he's already in, you suggest he throws it away and to seek out every pointless casual sexual encounter he can?

You may be an old bloke but you don't come across as mature at all. Something obviously attracted him to this woman in the first place so maybe he should fight for what he already has and perhaps have a proper talk with the girl to make sure there's nothing more to this than the car issue - which can be sorted without much fuss. You advocate the cowards option.
 
Ha Ha I never expected an honest reply from anyone on this forum to be fair :P I just like asking odd questions and seeing how imaginative you all are :)

And if I am honest we have not had a single argument in 6 months , that's a first for me and bloody good I think , We haven't even argued about this matte , its just been mentioned by her that she would like me to get a car so its 50 - 50 witch is totally understandable.

Thanks for the advice its been an interesting read haha
 
A Pigeon is a girl who be walkin' by
My rimmed up blue, brand new sparklin' five
Her feet hurt so you know she want a ride
But she frontin' like she can't say hi
 
So.......

tl;dr

OP starts a thread feeling like he has a legitimate grievance against his girlfriend. Posters set OP straight. OP realises he is being an idiot and needs to man up and has nowhere to go but pretend like his topic was all a big joke just for the lols.

Average thread in an average day in GD :)
 
billysielu said:
She would have to be at least a 9 for this relationship to be worth the hassle.

Long term, you'll need a car - grown up men have cars.
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I had to reread that! I thought you said 'she had to be at least 9 for this relationship to be worth the hassle' eeeew.

I think I side with the girl on this, while her statement about her ex is pretty poor, ultimately you want her to spend the weekend driving to you and in reality it isn't fair.

My friend had a similar situation except he was the one driving. It may not seem a big deal driving for an hour of your weekend, but after a busy week it gets frustrating to then have to drive and spend time away from home all the time really starts to weigh on you. Everytime he didn't go the girlfriend got frustrated, which got him frustrated by the fact she was annoyed.

Living a distance apart doesn't work when only one of you can more easily do the travelling.
 
asteldian said:
Living a distance apart doesn't work when only one of you can more easily do the travelling.
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It can work but it is hard work. I wasn't driving when I first met my partner - she lived 50 miles away. It wasn't easy and she wasn't a bus journey away but we made it work.

We're now married, living together and have a 4 year old son :)
 
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