with all due respect mate, you come across as a bit insecure ? Maybe this isn't going to work out maybe it is, but you seem to be massively over analysing which is probably jacking up your paranoia levels ?It does read like she has lost interest which might be due to her now having a full time job etc and she may just want to go and do different things that are not compatible with being in a relationship with you ?
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with all due respect mate, you come across as a bit insecure ? Maybe this isn't going to work out maybe it is, but you seem to be massively over analysing which is probably jacking up your paranoia levels ?It does read like she has lost interest which might be due to her now having a full time job etc and she may just want to go and do different things that are not compatible with being in a relationship with you ?
This. She's keeping her options open but has no respect for you, even if she does fall back to you are you sure you want to be with someone who does that?
What ever did people do before txt messages?
People get so wrapped up in the txt game and read so much into it. What happens when you flirt with her directly...that is what matters.
Brilliant. Thanks for that.
Does she send the same number of 'x's at the end of her txts as you? If she doesn't then it's as good as over. If she does, add one more 'x' and see if she matches it. If she doesn't then you need to move on - she clearly doesn't feel the same way if she can't even be bothered to send an extra 'x'. This is the best indicator or the health of a relationship.
I would not text her for a while (couple of weeks to a month) and see how she responds. If she doesn't make any effort at all, cut her loose.
If she does start texting and seeming interested you'll know it was just a busy period for her (or she's no longer receiving sausage elsewhere and has come crawling back).
If she does start texting and seeming interested you'll know it was just a busy period for her (or she's no longer receiving sausage elsewhere and has come crawling back).
shouldnt have to really be playing the no txt game after 6 months tho lol
ive sent her a message about the lack of flirty response and pretty much said i need to know the deal or its not going to work out, if she dont reply with a decent answer then i am going to end it
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end it
life is too short
your miss right could be just around the corner
don't be the guy who gets trodden on, you're better than that
life is too short
your miss right could be just around the corner
don't be the guy who gets trodden on, you're better than that
Yep the yardstick of a relationship for the last two thousand years. Check your txt's fellas your relationship / marriage could be over and you didn't even know it.
I haven't text my wife in 3 weeks.
Is she cheating on me? Does she prefer Bruno and Darnell to me? Should I send x or xxx or maybe spice things up with xXxoxXx.
Help me internetz.
Jesus just phone/speak to her in person. Either way - man up
Is she cheating on me? Does she prefer Bruno and Darnell to me? Should I send x or xxx or maybe spice things up with xXxoxXx.
Help me internetz.
Jesus just phone/speak to her in person. Either way - man up
+1 pics needed
You sound like your dying to end the relationship anyway.
So what if she doesn't reply to your flirty messages, perhaps she's gotten used to them that they just seem like general small talk.
Can you not keep her company whilst she's babysitting? She'll likely only be watching children's TV. Suggest watching whatever her nephews favourite film is, you might hate it, but at least you can spend time with her.
If she starts making excuses about that, then you need to start worrying. Have you met her brother? Do you get on with him?
So what if she doesn't reply to your flirty messages, perhaps she's gotten used to them that they just seem like general small talk.
Can you not keep her company whilst she's babysitting? She'll likely only be watching children's TV. Suggest watching whatever her nephews favourite film is, you might hate it, but at least you can spend time with her.
If she starts making excuses about that, then you need to start worrying. Have you met her brother? Do you get on with him?
Put her on the the spot and it's over (probably). Sending a message complaining about her behaviour when she's not convinced she even wants you will help her make that decision.
I know it's hard but best thing to do is back off - assuming it's not too late. Stop messaging her and give her space to come back to you. If she doesn't message after a few days it's over.
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