I ran a fairly successful pc component store on ebay for a while (apple bits, laptop spares mainly) and lost about £600 a month to scammers. Eventually we started to security mark every item above £20, etc, it did nothing. When claims were made the paypal team always always sided with the buyer, no matter the evidence we supplied.. Missing UV markers, completely different items returned (videos of unboxing returned items, comically detailed) blah blah, it meant absolutely nothing. Policy is to side with the buyer, unless the police are directly involved. I once lost £1400 in a day to a French buyer. Took every conceivable precaution.. He ticked one box and that was that.. I was pretty much on the phone to paypal 2-3 times a week.
Anyway, bottom line, avoid selling on ebay if at-all possible.
Well its been ok on ebay up to now, mm from now on.
I accepted the return with schizo's message.
So I sell mobo on ebay.

Honestly, I regard ebay as the marketplace for the dregs of society, people who are too stupid to use anything else, too weird to go to a shop, too socially awkward to use a classified site, etc etc.
I'm well aware that this is only indicative of maybe 0.01% of their userbase but nevertheless that mentality helps me stay away from it and all the people it inhabits.
I never had any real issues with eBay until recently when I was trying to sell my daughters rarely used 3DS, 3 sales and all 3 within 24 hours (one within 2 minutes) of the end of the auction said they won but wont be purchasing the item, as a seller you have no power on eBay anymore, my option was to cancel and say I cant meet the order or say they requested it, no option anywhere to complain about wasted time or non paying bidder.

unfortunately eBay always sides with the buyer so even if you get a different item back or even an empty box as long as they have a reference to say they have posted the item eBay don't care about the people who actually get charged the fees.
Charming.
OP, how would you feel if you'd just bought a motherboard off eBay and within a few days a cap had blown? Reverse the situation and there's no evidence whatsoever that either the buyer or eBay or PayPal are trying to scam you.
You're just being awkward (saying you won't accept returns doesn't mean anything - that's only applicable if the buyer simply changes their mind, you're still on the hook for faulty/items not as described) and treating eBay like a car boot sale or classifieds.
Accept the return, and go from there. If it isn't your motherboard that you receive back, THEN you've been scammed and you'll need to follow the various processes with either eBay and PayPal (they're not the same company any more).
In my experience, the people who have problems with eBay are those who don't use it as it is intended.
You could have just reported the winner of the auction for non payment?
They don't always side with the buyer, at all. I've won a few claims made when I've sold items, just by being reasonable and not jumping to conclusions. Of course eBay care about the people getting charged the fees - that's how they make money!
In theory you are right. I am sure that there are numerous buyers out there who are honest, and DO have the right to claim a refund/return when the item they purchased is either faulty or not as described.
The problem is with ebay is that the whole process does not give a seller faith that they will be protected if they are scammed. The usual examples we get given are that the seller has to take the hit and suck it up.
I worked in retail for a few years and customers scamming our returns process was common place (same deal, buy new item to replace one they had damaged at home, bring damaged item in on receipt and claim it was faulty). The difference is there was that in the 1000s of legitimate transactions per week it was such a small % of the overall sales that it made zero difference. Here we are talking about individuals who perhaps sell a handful of items per year and getting ripped off, it makes a HUGE difference to them.
I take it that Ebay isnt a car boot sale etc, but there are so many examples of sellers getting scammed despite taking picture of the item working before then posted it. With serials numbers showing the returned item was different from the one sent etc etc.
I am also sure that every now and again Ebay do back the seller, but these are few and far between.
My advise to the OP is that if the police threat fails and he calls your bluff, just prepare to bend over and expect to be taken dry.....because from a neutral point of view history tells me that you are going to get shafted.
Members Market - *click*.Out of interest what does MM stand for? Is it a new sellers marketplace?
Out of interest what does MM stand for? Is it a new sellers marketplace?