Dating multiple women - morality

malachi said:
You are lucky, this time last year I was seeing someone. We went on 6 dates before we became an official couple. Looking back on it now, I spent £250 on those 6 dates........never again.

This Serbian girl I am now seeing has been a lot more cheaper my pocket so far :)
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£250 over 6 dates? I know money isn't everything but that is ~£40 a date! Seems quite cheap already to me!

4/5 (8/10 drinks) rounds at a pub/ bar.
Get close to £40 just going to the bloody cinema nowadays!

Where do you take the Serbian girl? McDonalds? :P
 
Nodiggidy123 said:
I'm not sure if she's intentionally doing it. When we are together its amazing. But she is hardly forthcoming on the phone. She barely messages me. Short replies. Perhaps I'm expecting to much. I dunno
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In a not so parallel universe, she could be dating 3 men, have great chemistry with one and be waiting for him, whilst you're one of the other two.

Sorry OP, both men and women plays these games. Though I'd say men do more so.
 
d_brennen said:
From personal experience, maybe.

When I split from wife I went on a bit of a mission to smash as much pasty as humanly possible, which was quite amusing for a year or so (this was 2 years after the breakup, I took it quite badly) and had several on the go in very close proximity, a few times being in the same bar at the same time. What this does for your nerves...

Then one of them just wouldn't leave and she's been in living in my house since December... TBH I wouldn't swap what I have now for all the excitement in the world, but at the same time I don't regret what went on.
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wait.... what?
 
TacticalFish said:
In a not so parallel universe, she could be dating 3 men, have great chemistry with one and be waiting for him, whilst you're one of the other two.

Sorry OP, both men and women plays these games. Though I'd say men do more so.
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Really? When have you ever heard of a man "playing hard to get" ? :p

Diagro said:
wait.... what?
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I assume it's an indirect way of saying that it ended up as a serious relationship and they're still together :p
 
A friend of mine has had 5 or so girls on the go at once on a cruise ship...

But to your question so long as you have not agreed to be exclusive with any of them then no, I would assume they were seeing other people too.
 
balky12 said:
£250 over 6 dates? I know money isn't everything but that is ~£40 a date! Seems quite cheap already to me!

4/5 (8/10 drinks) rounds at a pub/ bar.
Get close to £40 just going to the bloody cinema nowadays!

Where do you take the Serbian girl? McDonalds? :P
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I don't take her anywhere, I keep her in my basement. Feed her bread and water.:D

Serious note, she doesn't drink alcohol and doesn't eat a lot. Hence having her lovely size 8 to 10 figure.:)
 
Nothing wrong with going on dates with multiple women at the same time.

Just don't go to the same restaurant (or ones over the road) "at the same time."




In all seriousness, once it becomes serious with one of them, you should stop seeing the others.
 
TacticalFish said:
In a not so parallel universe, she could be dating 3 men, have great chemistry with one and be waiting for him, whilst you're one of the other two.

Sorry OP, both men and women plays these games. Though I'd say men do more so.
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This is main thing that put me off Internet dating

It could take weeks to get to the exclusive talk.
And all that time she could be talking to loads of others.
And new it's always appealing

And as paying for a date is still (mostly not always) the guys part it can get expensive!

At least off of the dating sites the other person isn't likely to be grinding through people like a factory line
 
I agree the people in the thread, I don't see a problem with dating a few women at a time, as it generally seems the normal now when first starting out. It’s also probably a good thing as well at the start so you don’t come across overly keen on the first few dates as you have options. It also helps to find out how genuine they are depend on how good of a judge of character you are.

What happened to that internet dating thread?
 
Update.

Went out for the day with one of the other 2 today. Had a fantastic time and really clicked.

Had this conversation with her and have both agreed to exclusively see each other.
 
Nodiggidy123 said:
Update.

Went out for the day with one of the other 2 today. Had a fantastic time and really clicked.

Had this conversation with her and have both agreed to exclusively see each other.
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THE QUESTION IS!

Did you do the dirty yet ffs? that's all that matters. No one cares about dates, we just wanna hear how you had a 4some.

Cosimo said:
OP should invite all three of them for a "party".
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I LIKE IT! Crafty you sly dog.
 
Update.

After having a great time yesterday. Said woman has now decided.. after I deleted my pof account and cancelled dates with the other girls. That she isn't ready! I mean WTF!

Lesson learned I ain't telling them naff all.
 
Nodiggidy123 said:
Update.

After having a great time yesterday. Said woman has now decided.. after I deleted my pof account and cancelled dates with the other girls. That she isn't ready! I mean WTF!

Lesson learned I ain't telling them naff all.
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The clear lesson here is next time smash the girls pasty, then her mums. :eek::D
 
Nodiggidy123 said:
afternoon all.

ive now been separated 4 or so months. been out on a few dates but not met anyone i can see a long term future with.

im in the rare position where i am dating 3 different women. i have kissed 2 of them and there is the possibilty of taking things further with one of them.

the issue i have is am i doing something wrong? none of them have shown any interest in being exclusive but the whole thing just feel a bit strange to me.

am i doing a bad thing here?
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Serious question

Why do you crave company to such an extent that this has become a problem?
 
As soon as you bang one of them you will feel extra bangable yourself.

This will make the other two want to bang you.

So bang them.

After you have banged them all you will feel super duperly bangable, or, you will feel so morally disgusted at yourself for being such a **** that you lose all bangability.

This will be your first true test.

Good luck!
 
Threepwood said:
As soon as you bang one of them you will feel extra bangable yourself.

This will make the other two want to bang you.

So bang them.

After you have banged them all you will feel super duperly bangable, or, you will feel so morally disgusted at yourself for being such a **** that you lose all bangability.

This will be your first true test.

Good luck!
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This. This guy. He gets it. Women are like Pokemon, gotta bang 'em all.
 
Diddums said:
This. This guy. He gets it. Women are like Pokemon, gotta bang 'em all.
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But, never forget, every woman you bang, you're also banging ever bloke that's been there before you.

That man could be me. How does it feel knowing I'm your lover?
 
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