The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

ChrisD. · 29 Jun 2016 at 16:41

Stuff that get's put in this thread reminds why I want to stay single.

Janesy B · 29 Jun 2016 at 16:45

You really can't give someone with Aspergers a hard time for asking questions like that.

Ayahuasca · 29 Jun 2016 at 16:47

Dooksy said:
Stuff that get's put in this thread reminds why I want to stay single.

This is nothing compared to what you see on reddit's r/TheRedPill

Steampunk · 29 Jun 2016 at 16:56

lafemmefatale said:
These last couple of pages have made my face hurt with palming it so much.

Given I've not been around these parts for a fair while, could someone give me a highlight reel of what's gone down in this thread?

Is Regulus still insistent upon dating the crazies?

That came and went. What about you then? Still insistent upon dating the crazies?

lafemmefatale · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:05

No, I've resigned myself to a life of singledom, netflix with a tub of ice cream, hours spent staring wistfully out of the window and many, many cats.

TechMinerUK · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:09

lafemmefatale said:
No, I've resigned myself to a life of singledom, netflix with a tub of ice cream, hours spent staring wistfully out of the window and many, many cats.

Sounds great, other than the cats

(Sorry I've been lurking on this thread for a while now

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Steampunk · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:12

lafemmefatale said:
No, I've resigned myself to a life of singledom, netflix with a tub of ice cream, hours spent staring wistfully out of the window and many, many cats.

<looks at watch> ....

<checks time> ....

...What about now?

Come on, spill the beans, you know you want to, or else you wouldn't be back. You have a story to continue telling.

lafemmefatale · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:18

Steampunk said:
<looks at watch> ....

<checks time> ....

...What about now?

Come on, spill the beans, you know you want to, or else you wouldn't be back. You have a story to continue telling.

It seems my reputation precedes me.

Seriously, that's it. There is nothing more to tell.

Noxia · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:19

dave1983 said:
You asked a lady her weight are you nuts...... That's the most disrespectful thing you could ask, with world today and magazines harping on about being a size 6 "great confidence boost there sir" NOT.

she's most probably banging Theo "her gym buddy"

She didn't mind, she is proud of her weight and then jumped on me to demonstrate.

Ayahuasca said:
Might be being a little harsh on Noxia, he stated above he has autism/aspergers. I'm guessing foreign women might not be as hung up on it as our standard 2/10 British women are.

She already knows what I'm like so I figured I could get away with asking. In her own words "I refuse to be a fat ***** no matter how old I get". Works for me.

Steampunk · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:21

lafemmefatale said:
It seems my reputation precedes me.

Seriously, that's it. There is nothing more to tell.

Seriously, you're still twiddling your thumbs waiting for the girlfriend from six months ago?

lafemmefatale · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:25

Steampunk said:
Seriously, you're still twiddling your thumbs waiting for the girlfriend from six months ago?

No, of course not. That ship has sailed. I put my mind to getting this place redecorated, furnished nicely and actually doing stuff for myself rather than an idea of doing it for "us" when I wasn't actually sure what "us" was.

So yeah.

Steampunk · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:30

lafemmefatale said:
No, of course not. That ship has sailed. I put my mind to getting this place redecorated, furnished nicely and actually doing stuff for myself rather than an idea of doing it for "us" when I wasn't actually sure what "us" was.

So yeah.

So what, now I have to tell you I told you so? Well, ****...

I'm sorry it didn't work out, but it always sounded a bit of a long shot to me. Being together is the cornerstone of any relationship. If you can't be together, it's so very much harder to make it work out. I hope you're okay and getting past it though.

lafemmefatale · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:31

Go ahead, tell me you told me so.

Steampunk · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:37

lafemmefatale said:
Go ahead, tell me you told me so.

You've just got to let it go and move on to better things. Concentrating on yourself is good, rather than waiting on something/someone that's never going to happen.

RoboCod · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:39

Noxia is this you?

lafemmefatale · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:41

Steampunk said:
You've just got to let it go and move on to better things. Concentrating on yourself is good, rather than waiting on something/someone that's never going to happen.

I'm generally feeling much better. I feel like I've moved on enough for it not to be getting in the way of every little thing I do.

Noxia · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:48

RoboCod said:
Noxia is this you?

Ha no. Aside from a few odd social quirks it hard to tell with me

Steampunk · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:50

lafemmefatale said:
I'm generally feeling much better. I feel like I've moved on enough for it not to be getting in the way of every little thing I do.

Time, distance, severing, etc it does work. You know all this, but it still doesn't stop you feeling the way you feel, which is an important thing to understand. It's really not been that long, you'll keep improving as long as you keep moving forwards.

Hades · 29 Jun 2016 at 17:54

Noxia said:
She didn't mind, she is proud of her weight and then jumped on me to demonstrate.

She already knows what I'm like so I figured I could get away with asking. In her own words "I refuse to be a fat ***** no matter how old I get". Works for me.

Nothing wrong with asking it in my opinion. Not sure why people think it's such a bad thing.

ChrisD. · 30 Jun 2016 at 10:12

Ayahuasca said:
This is nothing compared to what you see on reddit's r/TheRedPill

I haven't ventured onto Reddit yet, not sure I want to.

Steampunk said:
Time, distance, severing, etc it does work. You know all this, but it still doesn't stop you feeling the way you feel, which is an important thing to understand. It's really not been that long, you'll keep improving as long as you keep moving forwards.

Two years after my ex and I broke up I bumped into her on a night out the other weekend. Made me realise that I wasn't quite as over her as I thought!