You weren't invited to make a last minute booking yourself?
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You weren't invited to make a last minute booking yourself?
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What you mean try and get in the same hotel?
Nah lol
its win win for you anyway. Either nothing goes on and you know you can trust her, or something does happen and you dodge a bullet quite early on.
that's true I spoke to her about it and she was like - well we've known one another 5 years don't you think something would have happened by now if it was going to
She has a valid point.
You know how men chase after a women, yet the women always friends zone them and nothing never happens.
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I've known my relatively new girlfriend for over 10 years now, not that this helps in any way... 
doesn't matter now because yesterday I bumped into her up Birmingham shopping holding hands with the said ex
So its all over now
doesn't matter now because yesterday I bumped into her up Birmingham shopping holding hands with the said ex
So its all over now
Bullet dodged mate.
doesn't matter now because yesterday I bumped into her up Birmingham shopping holding hands with the said ex
So its all over now
Was her ex the one she was going away with?
yup altho I didn't know it was an ex she had told me it was just a friend
Absolutely a bullet well dodged. What was his reaction when you introduced yourself? Did he know about you or seem ****** off?
seemed proper ****** off I approached her and said whats going on....
he looked proper puzzled then she said I will call you later, so I looked at the guy and said just incase your wondering who I am, i'm the guy shes been sleeping with the last 6 or 7 weeks, then I said enjoy your day and walked off
seemed proper ****** off I approached her and said whats going on....
he looked proper puzzled then she said I will call you later, so I looked at the guy and said just incase your wondering who I am, i'm the guy shes been sleeping with the last 6 or 7 weeks, then I said enjoy your day and walked off
Well at least everyone knows where they stand now. Sorry it didn't work out.
thanks steampunk, really appreciate your input
Life's too short to worry about other people after you've tried to helphelp. I'd steer well clear permanently.
But I couldn't be a friend to someone like that
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Matched with a girl on Tinder a couple of weeks ago, and started speaking for a few weeks. Met up on a Tuesday evening as a very much this was the only opportunity we were going to get, so met up, bit awkward at first as is expected i suppose. My first 'date' with another girl other than my ex for over 4 years. Anywho, she asked me out on the Wednesday evening but i was busy, and then askjed me out again for the Thursday, so yes we then met up again. And now she's in Spain where her parents live until the start of September.. Really strange situation to be honest; she's hot AF though..No idea what she's doing being interested in me in the first instance 
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So I have been spending a lot of time with the girl who did not want me to keep Intouch with my ex's. Turns out she is not crazy, actually she is very nice we are taking a trip to Italy together later in the week. It's probably not going to last long term for a couple of reasons but we are both ok with that.
Do any of you guys have experience with the child arrangement order to gain access to your kids after a break-up?
Is it effective?
I read so much about the father having so few rights. I went to see the CAB this morning but looking for some real world examples from people who've used it with success.
Thanks.
Is it effective?
I read so much about the father having so few rights. I went to see the CAB this morning but looking for some real world examples from people who've used it with success.
Thanks.
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All down to how co-operative the woman is to be honest. I have plenty of friends who fit the bill on both sides.
1) My mate is happy for her daughters dad to have access every other week for 4 days, she gets to go out and be "single" and he gets to spend 4 days every other week.
2) My mate's misses just up and left and took his 3 girls 2 hours drive away to perma live, after a bit of ****ging off match, she told a load of lies about him about hitting the kids.... he went 7 months of no contact then managed to come to an agreement to have them 1 - 2 weekends a month.
3) Mate of mine was seeing a nutter, got pregnant split up.... When she doesn't have a boyfriend she with holds access and gives no reason. Then when she wants to go out or on holiday give access.... Aka depending on what mood she's in depends on when he can see his daughter... Really really sad to be honest.
The pattern here I'm afraid is 2 things:
1) How mental/selfish is the Childrens mother
2) What court order you can get.
One thing is for sure, the likelihood of you ****ging each other off and hating each other is norm from what I've seen... Unless BOTH parties are mature and put the children first before person gains.
Just hope and pray I never have to go through it. Good luck.