The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

TechMinerUK said:
Because I need an element of certainty and security, if someones not interested then I need to be able to move on without wondering if they might change their mind :)
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There's no certainty with people. Ever. Less with women. Not even after decades of knowing them. Nobody despise a well traveled cliche more than I do, but the best you can do is to live in the moment and not wonder too much what goes on in their heads.

Unfortunately you'll come across as insecure and needy and that's a mahoosive turn off for most people.
 
Hades said:
Does anyone else think that talk of being alpha or beta is a little childish (not targetting that at anyone particular)? Yes it's important to be confident, self assured and have purpose. But the term alpha just seems quite overused and silly to me nowadays.
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Yes. Plus the way it's portrayed is wrong. Being 'alpha' implies that you're the top dog among a bunch of other dogs, however in a relationship or potential relationship it's just you and the other person. So maybe the 'lone wolf' who 'doesn't run with the pack' are phrases these people should adopt and use to elevate themselves.

Also in Wolf packs the animal which appears to be the alpha male is actually the beta. The alpha sits in the shadows letting the beta discipline the pack. The alpha is the brains behind the operation and makes the tactical decisions.

So yes all this alpha talk among humans is rubbish.
 
regulus said:
There's no certainty with people. Ever. Less with women. Not even after decades of knowing them. Nobody despise a well traveled cliche more than I do, but the best you can do is to live in the moment and not wonder too much what goes on in their heads.
Unfortunately you'll come across as insecure and needy and that's a mahoosive turn off for most people.
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Thankfully I try not to show it to people :)
 
Had a interesting couple of days.

I'm in Phuket diving. I'm not into the bar girls so tired tinder only to see its full of working girls. I got chatting to a Thai girl who last year moved to Phuket from the US for a very good job offer.

Went for a drink, she seemed nice but bored with me. In fairness I was not having the best day as I ruptured my eardrum recently.

We Got texting after the 'date' and decided to meet again the next day. She picked me up from the crappy hotel I am staying in.

We are driving to some place she has picked and she told me she was off working because it's her birthday. Me feeling spontaneous told her to stop at my hotel so I can get my stuff and then drive to the airport and I will take you for a nice dinner in Bangkok. Surprisingly she agreed so 2 hours later we are in the air.

Booked into a rather nice hotel, took her for dinner in a nice upscale place followed by drinks in on the 59th floor bar (vertigo / moon bar). Had a really fun 24 hours and she is now back in Phuket and I'm waiting for my flight tomorrow to london.

The joys of being single again. It did get a little expensive but worth it!

But I'm held up in bed now because I have damaged my ear diving:(
 
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Mate if you've got the money to do stuff like that from time to time just enjoy yourself... You never know where stuff like that is going to lead,
 
Nice.

Thai women look beautiful...until they hit 30 and everything starts to collapse. They age 10 years over a period of 6 months :(
 
Dr House said:
Had a interesting couple of days.

I'm in Phuket diving. I'm not into the bar girls so tired tinder only to see its full of working girls. I got chatting to a Thai girl who last year moved to Phuket from the US for a very good job offer.

Went for a drink, she seemed nice but bored with me. In fairness I was not having the best day as I ruptured my eardrum recently.

We Got texting after the 'date' and decided to meet again the next day. She picked me up from the crappy hotel I am staying in.

We are driving to some place she has picked and she told me she was off working because it's her birthday. Me feeling spontaneous told her to stop at my hotel so I can get my stuff and then drive to the airport and I will take you for a nice dinner in Bangkok. Surprisingly she agreed so 2 hours later we are in the air.

Booked into a rather nice hotel, took her for dinner in a nice upscale place followed by drinks in on the 59th floor bar (vertigo / moon bar). Had a really fun 24 hours and she is now back in Phuket and I'm waiting for my flight tomorrow to london.

The joys of being single again. It did get a little expensive but worth it!
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The sad pitiful life of junior doctors. No wonder you lot go on strike! How on earth do you cope?
 
just gets better and better the hotel spotted it's her birthday and left "us" a cake. As she has already gone home it's all mine hahahhaa

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Actually turns out she is a really sweet girl. Been texting me all day. It appears the doctor thing really get you a LOT of hits on tinder here. Flying home in the morning sadly.
 
Em3bbs said:
The sad pitiful life of junior doctors. No wonder you lot go on strike! How on earth do you cope?
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Lol. All jokes aside if I had to live off my pay it would not be easy 2.3 to 2.4k take home per month but around 2k per year in feels does not make it easy to live in london.
 
Dr House said:
It does not make a bit of difference in the UK or CZ. Probably the opposit it means your not Ritch and never home.
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We all know that's a lie :p

Doctor, Fireman, Solider, Police Officer. All are key words which would attracted the attention of any female no matter what country you are in.
 
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