You don't seem to understand that different people want different things. I know quite a few Russian girls (even dated one for a few weeks!) and most of them are genuinely looking for a normal relationship, albeit usually with "alpha" types. They are all exceptionally beautiful and I don't think I'd be exaggerating by saying that almost any guy who sees them wants to sleep with them.
But anything more than that? Personally, even if I was single, I'd run a mile. I find them humorless, materialistic, overly direct and incredibly boring to talk to. You'd doubtless say your wife is none of these things because to you, she isn't. You're an alpha male, and she's an alpha female, so you work well together, which is great. There's probably loads of guys out there who'd get on great with her, and equally loads who wouldn't.
If I took on your personality, I'd either end up with nobody (because they'd see that for me, it was all an act) or somebody I found attractive but didn't actually like. As it is, I'm probably a lot more "beta" than "alpha" - I have my own interests and don't go frantically chasing after women but equally if I like someone, I'll happily spend ages messaging back and forth with them, see them several times a week etc. And that works just as well for me as your way of approaching women has worked for you.
