I get why someone who identifies as someone else may be annoyed by being labelled something they dont like. I never understood why someone else would be so petty to fervently deny calling them whatever they want if it costs nothing.
Personally, i dont think there is a need to get so hung up about labels like that, as long as there is no intent to offend or infer, then whats the issue, call that person byw hat they prefer and if someone genuinely gets it wrong, shrug it off. I dont go mental when i meet people who accidentally pronounce my name wrong and neither do i make a point of purposely pronouncing the names like Benoit or Francois incorrectly because they do not suit my the phonetics assigned to my native alphabet.
Exactly. Try telling that to the usual trolls on this forum though and it will go in one ear and out the other.