The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

It sucks that the word of a female is always taken over a blokes, you are lucky she did not say you threatened her as it could have been worse. Some totally crazy people out there, educated and holding down good jobs but complete nutters in relationships.
 
Oh she did try the abuse stuff - she was a grade A nutter, plenty more stories than those in that post to be fair...so much drama from one girl!

Police got me to fill in a domestic abuse victim sheet, that was an eye opener - never considered I was in an abusive relationship, I remember her punching me in the face while I slept because she had a dream I cheated on her, this was 2 months into the "relationship".

I ask myself what I was thinking quite often - I should have known when her own mother and father didn't call her ever, even on her birthday and she had zero friends....turns out she tried to sleep with most of their boyfriends!

Her family are millionaires - money can't buy nice kids!

She was fit though! ha.
 
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Oh she did try the abuse stuff - she was a grade A nutter, plenty more stories than those in that post to be fair...so much drama from one girl!

Police got me to fill in a domestic abuse victim sheet, that was an eye opener - never considered I was in an abusive relationship, I remember her punching me in the face while I slept because she had a dream I cheated on her, this was 2 months into the "relationship".

I ask myself what I was thinking quite often - I should have known when her own mother and father didn't call her ever, even on her birthday and she had zero friends....turns out she tried to sleep with most of their boyfriends!

Her family are millionaires - money can't buy nice kids!

She was fit though! ha.

We need to see pictures to assess whether the domestic violence and the vandalism was worth it.

Asking for a friend.
 
A quick OCUK survey says :

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well its in oxford, the M&C was just where our first date was.

The same event is happening again on the 9th, would be funny if she was there again lol

https://www.slowdating.com/speed-da...MIofXzw9nk2gIVAVXTCh3R1Q7NEAAYASAAEgKy9_D_BwE

met my now wife at that event 9 years ago. was good fun and is 100% recommend it to anyone that's struggling with other methods.

I hear some of the older age brackets are a nightmare though. 30-40 if you have a kid don't bother and 40-50 tends to be ******* weird as they get sabotaged by older ladies.

I'm glad I went in the more reasonable 20-30 bracket.
 
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