The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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Likely because people come here to seek advise when things aren't going to plan, or try to find answers to what went wrong. If people came here just to say how well everything was going they would probably get berated for doing so.
This exactly. I have loads of friends in happy stable healthy relationships (quite a few of them met online). I also know many of them went through either extended dry spells or quite difficult relationships before they met their current partner.
There's hope for us all yet
I mean I'm eligible as ****, how am I still single 
Also, you're better off single than being with the wrong one.
Just like when you first apply for jobs, it’s a numbers game till you find the right one.
Relationships are the same.
and also there is generally a 3 year sweet spot where its time to move on to a new opportunity.
and also there is generally a 3 year sweet spot where its time to move on to a new opportunity.
Yep
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after meeting her in the bar again did you hit it and vanish the next morning
My mates been on loads recently (he's mid 40's and recently split from his long term partner). He went on a Tinder date a couple of weeks ago. It didn't go well and he sent her this next morning
He then reminded her how she kept asking him how much he earned, what car he drove and, gob-smackingly, how much 'allowance' he'd give a partner if they ended up together. I don't think it helped that she was several stone over the pictures she'd used on Tinder. I think he's had enough of women getting a free night of drinks and food out of him and then blanking him the next day. So he struck first. I wouldn't have sent that myself but I can understand his frustration and sat there giggling when he told me. He's now having a break from dating for a bit although he's still in contact with a couple of the women he's already met and recently went away for a weekend with one of them.
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My mates been on loads recently (he's mid 40's and recently split from his long term partner). He went on a Tinder date a couple of weeks ago. It didn't go well and he sent her this next morning
He then reminded her how she kept asking him how much he earned, what car he drove and, gob-smackingly, how much 'allowance' he'd give a partner if they ended up together. I don't think it helped that she was several stone over the pictures she'd used on Tinder. I think he's had enough of women getting a free night of drinks and food out of him and then blanking him the next day. So he struck first. I wouldn't have sent that myself but I can understand his frustration and sat there giggling when he told me. He's now having a break from dating for a bit although he's still in contact with a couple of the women he's already met and recently went away for a weekend with one of them.
must have had his fill of overweight single mothers cat fishing him.
I live in a different country now and got a few numbers while out and about. So much choice here it be rude for me to even consider internet dating.
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Nah, she was there with her boyfriend she apparently got back with
defo should have just blanked her
My mates been on loads recently (he's mid 40's and recently split from his long term partner). He went on a Tinder date a couple of weeks ago. It didn't go well and he sent her this next morning
He then reminded her how she kept asking him how much he earned, what car he drove and, gob-smackingly, how much 'allowance' he'd give a partner if they ended up together. I don't think it helped that she was several stone over the pictures she'd used on Tinder. I think he's had enough of women getting a free night of drinks and food out of him and then blanking him the next day. So he struck first. I wouldn't have sent that myself but I can understand his frustration and sat there giggling when he told me. He's now having a break from dating for a bit although he's still in contact with a couple of the women he's already met and recently went away for a weekend with one of them.
Ouch
Sounds like my kind of country. Passport on standby
Super expensive here so make sure you have plenty of money! Thankfully women don't expect you to spend money on them here unlike back in the UK.
I would have done if she didn't tap me on the shoulder while I was at the bar.
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Where is this mythical place of opportunity?
Switzerland, I've found a new interest for Turkish women. Meet a few here with amazing bodies
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Switzerland, I've found a new interest for Turkish women. Meet a few here with amazing bodies
I guess Switzerland is in a nice central spot for meeting all kinds of exotic beauties.
A Latina woman I know dated a Swiss man. Said he was the most obnoxious person she's ever been with. Does all that Nazi gold give the citizens a chip on their shoulders?
That's one the benefits of being here, not stuck on a small island so you have sorts nationalities coming here from the neighbouring countries and beyond.
As for the citizens having a chip on their shoulders, i haven't met any so far. All good and friendly.