Soldato
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Some people could do well to pick up a pair of big boy pants the next time they're raking through bargain bins in Primark.
Oh I agree, but look at some of the posts that seem to suggest only boomers could have got on the property ladder. After scrimping and I bought my first house in 2007, 5 years after Scam joined the forum. My point is he's obviously of age to have done the same (or at least was).A boomer derives from the rise of births right after WW2 so 1945-48, why do you think the poster you referred to would have to be a boomer because he joined Ocuk 18 years ago??

Why does an adult (presumably your managers are adults..) need to shout and scream for "5-15 minutes" to get their point across?Yeah must be be something terribly wrong.. We have a very low staff turnover in truth, the positions filled are mainly due to growth, the last youngster left stayed just over 4 years and he only quit as he wanted to try his hand outside of the UK but due the pandemic he cancelled all his plans.... He asked to come back and he starts again on the 1st of October and moving back 120 miles after going back to his parents.
But everyone is different and everyone buttons are pushed differently, but one thing is common making mistakes happen and taking ownership your mistake and the consequences from that is severely lacking in the youth of today... But fine have a written warning that sits as a black mark in your personnel record that puts a red target on your back when circumstances change or take some fantastic profanity/sarcasm/possible shouty shouty for 5-15mins and carry on as normal with your head down for the rest of the day while you do your upmost to fix the mess the made. Its called being an Adult.... but that doesn't happen until you have a 500k house and a BMW on your drive apparently.

Why does an adult (presumably your managers are adults..) need to shout and scream for "5-15 minutes" to get their point across?
That sounds like somebody who has anger management issues, or small man syndrome![]()
Any manager that feels the need to shout for 5-15 minutes has no idea how to do is job.
Well Scam I hope you have as good a house purchase as we did in 70's - Rented a furnished flat then a unfurnished flat then wife and myself decided to buy a house - We could only afford £4.5k found a house and went to look - Woman opened the door and said we have been offered £6.5k can you match it - no chance we were gazumped -- Where did gazumping come from - Bloody London.
We managed to buy a house after staying in for 12 months and save £1k (I was on £19 a week and wife on less) - £8.5k then we were hit by 12% mortgage rate - so I hope you do as well -
My next house we put everything down we had for the smallest mortgage and moved in with £30.
That is how it's been all along - sell high and your new house is high - no better off but live in a better place - So before you gob off and blame the old just look outside of London and you will see a totally different view - We struggled because of London -
You assume its full on shouting for 15mins. You got to mix it up with some quality be-littling, Shouting is reserved for extra special occasions![]()
I'm not a boomer and I save. Maybe the reason 'boomers' have more money is because previous generations appreciated things more?
Its nothing to do with appreciating things or saving money, the way the world functions has fundamentally changed and the opportunities they had are simply not available now for most people.
Pretty much this, so you can all either adapt to this change or just keep on bleating on how hard done to you are. Being born in England you are already privileged beyond measure, a safe environment a wonderful education all on a plate for you to take and absorb like a sponge, when that plate is taken away its down to how lucky you are, your work ethic and what you are willing to sacrifice to buy all that useless stuff than you think will make you happier. You cant have it all at once unless your parents are loaded, you get lucky, you are very talented or your smart enough and violent enough to be a really good crook.
Its nothing to do with appreciating things or saving money, the way the world functions has fundamentaly changed and the opportunities they had are simply not available now for most people.
Care providers are going to take virtually all of the value of their houses.House price growth in the stratosphere vs wage growth. At some point it will come crashing down, possibly when the generation who reaped the benefits start dying off and suddenly we find billions in estate values subject to inheritance tax and distressed selling en masse.
Even if your kids still live at home, you might have to sell your house to pay for your care fees.If you own a property, it’s likely that you’ll have to pay your own care home fees. However, sometimes the value of your home won’t be included in your financial assessment – called a property disregard. It won’t be included if certain people still live there, including:
- your spouse, partner or civil partner
- a close relative aged 60 or over
- a close relative who is incapacitated.
Well said sir. I'm flabbergasted people are not-only 'ok' with bricks and mortar earning nearly triple the average salary consistently for 14 years, yet they're actively defending it as normal. Either there's a lot of closet landlords on here with fingers in the pie (likely), or the whole world has gone mad! A reminder that this thread was never about me, it's about that fact.Get a grip, the lot of you. Honestly.
I think you're forgetting that buying nowadays involves a massive deposit. The average FTB deposit was £46,187 in 2019. The average renter spends around 30% on housing, so saving even a third of your salary is difficult.You can afford to rent there (but not buy) seemingly, but in doing so you've missed out on potentially several years of owning a property, paying down a mortgage and perhaps being the beneficiary of some gains in its value.
It is. And I'm ok with it. This thread is not about me. But if you do want to know we've rented the same place for a number of years with no rent rises and hence aer paying below market rate. Which is helping. Moving to a worse area would not save us much at all, now. That's the renting cycle.Thats a compromise you've chosen to make, if you want to live in the now, rent a 2 bed flat when you only need a 1 bed, rent in an expensive area in West London when you could rent then buy in a cheaper area then that's your choice.
Exactly. Clearly the bar has fallen very low indeed considering most people here seem ok with houses earning way more than your average worker. Which (again) is what this thread is about.How far do we let this bar drop? At what point do we, as a society, say "ok maybe this needs fixing".
Thats a compromise you've chosen to make, if you want to live in the now, rent a 2 bed flat when you only need a 1 bed, rent in an expensive area in West London when you could rent then buy in a cheaper area then that's your choice.