I have the same in experience in COD where I solo queue almost all of the time. I've found that I'm one of at most 2 people per side that actually play the objective(s) and not just treat every game mode like it's TDM. I still end up having fun even if my side doesn't win but when I get into a random team where more than half of my team mates are actually PTFO then that ticks an extra box for me.I've been having a blast with this and I think I realise why, It's because i've been playing in squads with likemended players like me. All putting in team work, capping and reviving and so on.