Uh-oh a girl thread...

Drossla said:
100% ^^ It's just I don't know when I'm going to get the opportunity to tell her (Face to face) and I'd rather not do it over the phone! Guess I'm going to have to ask her out for drinks then go from there.
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I fail to understand your problem with asking her for a drink over the phone... is she deaf or something??
 
Valentines is coming up as well, could do something cheesy and romantic if you wanted as well.

But yeah, as with the general consensus, don't delve any further into the friendship zone. Delve into her erogenous zones instead. It's what they all want really.
 
no dont tell her

Tell her to close her eyes then kiss her. Women want action not you fumbling like an emo trying to express your emotions to her over the phone.

Or depending on how good your eye contact flirting is just give her good eye contact and tell her via your eyes your going in for the kill (ie going to kiss her)

But ofc your problem is she is built up in your mind to such a high freaking level you are bricking it....its like Mount Everest to you now i bet.....and its a long long way down :)
 
Gustov said:
No...telling her he likes her over the phone. That's the part he's struggling with right?
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Yes... but to get a face to face meet with her on her own, surely he'll have to ask her out for a drink, implying he wants it to just be the two of them?
 
I haven't read through the thread so apologies if i'm re-iterating previous posts....

But...

You're a complete fool if you dont. Although, the last thing I would do is just tell her 'how you feel' :rolleyes:

Just phone her... Say "hey how you doing? Fancy dinner on so and so night...or a drink?"

The truth is, you're in danger of falling into the 'friend zone' which if i'm honest, is never a good place to be. Be upfront, ask her out for a proper 'date' but don't go proposing to the girl. Just take it from there...
 
you're talking to a lot of males that i would stake a bet on not many actually havin a successful relationship in their lives, I also am in no fit possition to go giving woman advise....

but the answer would really be upon how you tell her/when you tell her/where you tell her and if she's gay or not the latter been the ultimate variable ofc haha

but the chances are she's feeling the same way bout you otherwise why would she be contacting you to get together.... you never know, if you leave it too late she could start thinkin you're not intrested or even if you yourself are gay....
I'd take her to back to your place and ask if she's ever seen brokeback mountain or something as you've never seen it lols (lie if necessary) if she's seen it ask her views on it an then see where the convo takes you...

(i can barely hold my fits of laughter in as i type this rofl
 
Nothing is more cringeworthy than declaring a crush. Get her out in the lash. Have a few drinks, have a laugh and see what happens.

UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU TRY TO DECLARE UNDYING ATTRACTION. NEVER EVER EVER

Also TTIUWP

Second also: please video whatever choice you make. It will help many future OPs.
 
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Drossla said:
Still not spoken with the first girl which is kinda good because it makes things a bit more awkward and less friendly. You guys say the first girl only wants to be friends now but I don't thing you all realise how infrequently I actually see her. She got in touch regarding something else today but it looks like I'm just going to have to ask her out over the phone :\ She deserves better though.
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Okay just re-read back through some of this thread....

OMG to the above... Seriously... Dear god my boy you have no hope in hell with that attitude. :eek:

At risk of sounding egotistical (i'm genuinely not) i'm very successful with women and trust me, you are thinking about everything in completely the wrong way.

Here are my sure fire steps to success:

1. Grow a pair
2. Pick up the phone and say the following:- "Hey, it was nice hearing from you the other day and it got me to thinking... You're a nice girl and i'd really like to take you out for a drink"

And thats it!.... Stop there.... Say no more and no less....

It's short, to the point, doesn't smell of arrogance or desperation. That is the key to 'confidence' which is by far the most attractive quality to women. In one short sentence you've complimented her without sounding slushy or desperate, made her feel good about herself, laid your cards on the table without declaring your undying love for her and asked her out without begging. And actually asked her out in a, dare I say it, slightly "non-too-concerned about the outcome" manner.

In summary you've made her think you like her a bit. But she doesn't know how much.

Oh god now I feel as though I'm over analysing it myself. Just ring her, ask her out and get on with your life.
 
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