Did she ditch me for good?

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I was going to my bank to deposit some cash. Well, I did so and on the way back home I decided to have a meal at Garfunkels. I knew that this restaurant is usually expensive and doesn't get you your moneys worth. That said, i couldn't be bother to go elsewhere as I was hungry.

I stepped in the restaurant with a rather rejuvenated and elevated spirit which does help "everything". There was this chick from Poland(i could tell) waiting for me to greet me and take me to the table. She was rather good looking but with a "cold" face....anyway...she welcomed me and she asked me where I would like to sit. I said over there and she swiftly escorted me to the table. On the way to the table she showed me the person who will be serving me. I thought "wow, this is not the service I expected". I greeted my assigned servant with a smile. She is a petite polish girl not over 5'.3" tall with a rather decent structure, aged close to 30. I didn't like much her face but I could haggle.

She came to my table promtly to take my order and she was very friendly and smiling all the time. I ordered, she legged it and she returned after a while with the food.
Up to this point I just thought this is good service and nothing more however as time was passing I noticed that she kept being "attending" to me in a rather interesting manner. I begun wondering whether this is a sign that she likes me but I was unsure and given that I didn't REALLY like her face which is an important part for me I didn't pay much attention to her.

My stay there was coming to an end and I asked for the bill. I was pleased with the service I received and I wanted to leave a generous tip. The touch screen where they produce the invoices was right next to me so I asked straight for the bill while she was close to device as I wanted to leg it for home. I asked "how much is it?" she said "let's see" while looking at the screen. She said £15 and something and I replied "eeerrrr....I meant your tip"
She smiled and looked surprised from the liquidity of my kindness/generosity:D

She brought the bill, I left a £20 pound note and was about to make a move after finishing my coke. That's when she begun talking to me. She asked me where I come from etc. We had a chat for a good while and she said numerous times how kind I am, how much better her day would have been if she could have 2 guys like me every day etc.

Basically i was rather convinced that she likes me to some degree. She must have....otherwise she wouldn't of initiated anything. The chat ended with us exchanging some compliments and I left. After a day or two I decided that I would like to go out with her and see how things go. I was convinced with little doubt that she would accept my request.

So I went back a week later to ask her out. First I had a meal and then at the end I was hoping that she will see me and come and talk to me so that I can ask her out. Well....she came and I did. She looked kinda taken back a bit (not the responce I expected) but shen then told me to wait and she came after a while with her number(oh yeah I thought,job done:D). I told her ill call her tomorrow and left.
I left with a warm feeling of satisfaction knowing that right now i must be the best thing happened to her since sliced bread;)

I did call her as I promised and I was expecting to set up a meeting. We chatted for a while and she said to me that shes too busy this period because of the summer break as she had to replace others and therefore she couln't meet me (for a cofee) till 2weeks have passed:confused:
She said she will call me. I knew she wouldn't. She didn't:(

Wtf??? You say to someone how nice he is etc and when he asks you out you reply with "see ya in 2 weeks" ??? I mean...assuming that shes too busy to go out for a short coffe:rolleyes: she could always have sent me a txt or something. I knew that she wouldn't suddenly appear after 2 weeks and say "hey lets go out". I still have her number

What do I do:

1) Forget her. The b*tch sucked.

2) Call her and ask how shes doing while forgetting that she ignored you.

3) Call and verbally abuse her

4) Txt her with the link of this thread and let's take it from there:D

5) Go back with a pair of glasses similar to this http://megaspy.net/product_info.php/cPath/24/products_id/215 and demand to know what happened.
Bring the video back here for further scrutiny and entertainment
 
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she said numerous times how kind I am, how much better her day would have been if she could have 2 guys like me every day etc.

I bet it would the dirty girl!

she was just being nice cos you tipped her, now thinks your weird stalker man who will cut wrists screaming "LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO!!!"

Best leave it
 
1)
4)
and
5)
Are all good options :).
Of course we'd love 5, but 4 would be funny too I guess and 1) is the easy & smart way...

If you like swearing at people then 3) gives you a chance to :).
2) if you think there's some hope of her wanting to get together with you.
 
She gave you one chance (the number), looks like you somehow blew it. Maybe you were too cheeky ("best thing happened to her since sliced bread", ouch man, that's one step from "I'm too sexy for my shirt"...)

Send her text with "Hi, this is cheekykid, can I call you to chat?"
 
She gave you one chance (the number), looks like you somehow blew it. Maybe you were too cheeky ("best thing happened to her since sliced bread", ouch man, that's one step from "I'm too sexy for my shirt"...)

Send her text with "Hi, this is cheekykid, can I call you to chat?"

Wait a moment. She has no idea of me being a cheekykid, not yet that is:D

Maybe she gave me her number because she was too shy to say no and she just saw me as someone to have a chat there and nothing else but still....there is something missing here.
 
you called her too quick...
go back act real rich and leaver her a 50 quid tip but go with a friend so your more relaxed and in a more laughing mood.
ask her out again...have sex with her and video tape it.
then tell her you will call her in 2 weeks....text her in 2 weeks time giving her a link to the website where you have posted her sex tape.

then do choice number (1)
 
Forget her, sounds like you were only up for it because you thought it was an easy lay (and now you're confused because that may not have been the case).

If you didn't really like her in the first place, should be no big deal.
 
She never intended to call you. She felt sorry for you, that's why she gave you her number. The whole thing about being busy for 2 weeks was her way of saying "sorry, not interested".
 
She probably saw you as a sound investment; keep you interested, and you keep on tipping.

Notice the fact that she said:

[...] how much better her day would have been if she could have 2 guys like me every day etc.

You got played.

Guess you're just gonna have to fap for a little while longer aren't ya?
 
Up to this point I just thought this is good service and nothing more however as time was passing I noticed that she kept being "attending" to me in a rather interesting manner.

What does the part in quotation marks mean? Unless she was attending to you in a French maids outfit and offering you additional services for a fee then I'm not convinced that her attending to you is anything more than her job entails.

I think you may just have to accept that she was a friendly waitress, no more and no less. It happens. Maybe she did find you attractive as well but I wouldn't count on it that she wants to immediately make sweet sweet music with you. Although the previous sentence is subject to revision if she was in her French maid outfit.
 
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