A thread for all the ladies here in the forums!

I've never found that I turn heads, but going out in some decent clothes and actually having a sense of humour, being confident and your main aim of the night not being to drink 12 pints of stella and have a fight with any large object outside a club, usually at least draws a bit of attention from the ladies.

dont know if this is odd either but telling girls you can cook more than toast without setting fire to your kitchen and eventually the whole house works a bit...
 
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Muban said:
...oh excuse me I need to get back into the kitchen, I long for the feeling of my bare feet on the lino :p ;)
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how on earth did you get out of the shackles? :D

JoeRiches said:
I've never found that I turn heads, but going out in some decent clothes and actually having a sense of humour, being confident and your main aim of the night not being to drink 12 pints of stella and have a fight with any large object outside a club, usually at least draws a bit of attention from the ladies.
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I like you already :D But no doubt some big manly man will be along shortly to tell me that I'm wrong.
 
I like you already :D But no doubt some big manly man will be along shortly to tell me that I'm wrong.[/QUOTE]

More than likely lol.

On a recent browse of the tinternet i found this excellent little quote on someones myspace on who they would like to meet

I want meet nice western girlies for chitchat and sexytime - preference lady with yellow hairs, with plough experience and little or no history of retardation in family. I would like to meet you and make romance.
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Its not worked for me yet lol
 
JoeRiches said:
I've never found that I turn heads, but going out in some decent clothes and actually having a sense of humour, being confident and your main aim of the night not being to drink 12 pints of stella and have a fight with any large object outside a club, usually at least draws a bit of attention from the ladies.
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Bingo almost! Someone clean, relaxed, smiling, enjoying himself without letching over anything in a skirt ( there is not much more UNattractive than a man out on the pull), open to conversation, sense of humour, he will attract womens attention.
 
Personally I think its too broad of a question, everyone is different. Its like saying all women are crap drivers. *stuffs worms back in can*
 
kitten_caboodle said:
could explain how you got a girlfriend then I suppose :p
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Ooooh hit a nerve have i??;)....

Im quite happy with my gf thanks, she looks great although shes putting on a bit of weight but thats easily solved :p
 
Spawn said:
Im quite happy with my gf thanks, she looks great although shes putting on a bit of weight but thats easily solved :p
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Starvation? Or do you hapen to be a plastic surgeon? lol :p

Or do you own the keys to the fridge.... :D

I mean no offence with any of my comments

Being fully truthfull though all i have ever found it takes to meet anyone is confidence, if you can walk up to someone and talk to them confidently and not just talk gibberish cause you've drank so much even your best mates mum looks hot. Then people will still want to talk to you, you dont even have to be dressed in £100 shirts and trousers and stuff, if you look confident then people will notice that.
 
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Tall, dark and handsome of course! also, when you're fit and muscular, they can't wait to rip your kit off :D

A great smile always melts the ladies hearts too ;)
 
BrightonBelle said:
always talk about their car, or themselves, prop the bar up, don't dance etc etc...BORING!!!
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No one else has mentioned these things yet your saying these conform to the stereotypical guy that people think will pull ladies. Well your wrong, no one has mentioned that in this thread because no one thinks that. If anything we think:

1) Dancing should definitely be encouraged and I for one find it fun and am annoyed at friends who don't dance. Dancing is also a great way to pull.

2) It's an important rule that you shouldn't talk about yourself much, unless asked. Hell that comes under general social etiquette anyway, I wouldn't drone on about myself for 20 minutes unless I knew it was something vaguely interested being discussed that wasn't just self interest.

3) Car talk is generally a guy thing and personally I wouldn't try and strike up a lengthy conversation dedicated to cars unless I knew the girl was interested in cars.

I wasn't picking on you or anything I just think it needed to be said because otherwise you may actually believe the lies you posted :p

On a seperate point I noticed someone say guys should never go out aiming to pull, well put it this way all the guys I know that don't go out to pull generally don't because they aren't as self-aware of oppurtunities.

I've had to change my personality slightly to be more successful with pulling because I realised that i'm a bit shy so decided I need to approach groups of people rather than linger about when not dancing. I'm sure a lot of guys can identify with what I just said as not everyone is a natural socialiser.

IMO 3 most important things:
1) Confidence
2) Looks (dress sense, grooming etc)
3) Sociability
 
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1. This thread isn't about who will pull ladies but who will turn heads.
2. BB was pointing out bad things, not things that would work when trying to pull a girl, how on earth did you miss that?
3. Lies? Get off your high horse
 
Gilly said:
1. This thread isn't about who will pull ladies but who will turn heads.
2. BB was pointing out bad things, not things that would work when trying to pull a girl, how on earth did you miss that?
3. Lies? Get off your high horse
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Turn heads, pull ladies; it's all the same! I'll be very surprised if Yucca started this thread with no intention of bettering his understanding of how to be more attractive to girls and be able to pull them better.
BB said:
There is a stereotypical look that blokes assume women go for... dress sharply, clean, smell clean, (nothing wrong with those!) look like they have spent a ridiculous amount of time on their hair...kind of Metros, but full of themselves...always talk about their car, or themselves, prop the bar up, don't dance etc etc...BORING!!!
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She was pointing out that guys assume these bad things work, something which couldn't be further from the truth. I quoted it here so you could re-read it for yourself. I think you were perhaps so quick to come to BB's defence you didn't realise you may have been wrong. As for the lies thing, the sticking out tongue emoticon was meant to mean it wasn't supposed to be taken seriously.
 
Saberu said:
Turn heads, pull ladies; it's all the same! I'll be very surprised if Yucca started this thread with no intention of bettering his understanding of how to be more attractive to girls and be able to pull them better.
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Its not all the same else the words wouldn't be different :)

Saberu said:
She was pointing out that guys assume these bad things work, something which couldn't be further from the truth.
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Plenty of guys I know follow that stereotype thinking it'll work. Even some mates do it.
 
Oh yes, I forgot - a man who can dance: VERY attractive. And quite rare.

I don't mean just jigging about behind the girls in a club, I mean someone with rhythm...
 
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