Advice on current Girlfriend

Tosno · 15 Oct 2015 at 23:25

OP don't be so beta bro! You're basing your views on hers, if it was fine, you wouldn't be posting here!

There is only one good advice if a girl is being cold/indifferent. Be twice as cold! Go full Siberia! Break all contact, if she contacts you, wait 3 days before replying. If she has a flame for you she will contact you, if not, you lost nothing. The beauty of it is that men want sex but women want attention, it will break your balls going off the radar but it will be twice as hard for her wondering why you are not contacting her what are you doing what's better, do you have another girl and so on, take back the power OP, you're the man!

fendi · 15 Oct 2015 at 23:37

Diagro said:
!?

But yea seriously... End it now.

My wife and i still text all day and we have been together 11 years.

do you talk to each other too? or sit in silence?

Combat squirrel · 16 Oct 2015 at 00:30

FuriousGeorge said:
Shes found someone she likes but isnt sure whether it will go anywhere so shes keeping you on the back burner in case it doesnt work out.

Cut loose and save yourself hassle and keep your dignity.

Exactly this

Rifte · 16 Oct 2015 at 04:57

Seems like its over mate.

As other posters have said, save yourself the dignity and ditch her before she 'friendzones' you.

Greebo · 16 Oct 2015 at 07:22

fendi said:
do you talk to each other too? or sit in silence?

I've got married friends like that. There messages to each other pops up on Feb while they are sat together in the same room or even in bed!

Clearcut · 16 Oct 2015 at 07:53

Ask yourself what sort of wife would she make if she feels the fun in a relationship should have fizzled out within 6 months.

Oh and never, under any circumstances, trust them. believe me, I have encountered many over the years. It's in their nature to shop around until they find the best offer. Just enjoy the sex until she's gone.

pickle1972 · 16 Oct 2015 at 08:45

Just sounds like you are not her top priority. She has other things going on. That's healthy!
She has work and friends and other interests.
Maybe you are looking for something more but be careful what you wish for as someone who makes you their whole world can be very draining.
The "clearing the air talks" don't tend to be much fun and far from clearing the air can produce clouds.
Plan a really fun day out for you both and enjoy each other

go make some great memories and relax

take it a week at a time.

elh_2009 · 16 Oct 2015 at 11:08

I dont want to be her whole world, not atall, i encourage her to see her friends as much as i like to see mine

I thought she was off last Monday and mentioned it, she said she was fine and had just had a really busy day wt work, but maybe i kept it going on far to much and kept bringing it up and maybe thats just put a downer on things.

I dont think shes intrested in anyone else but naturally that thought has come into my head as like others ive seen it all before, i am not stupid enough to think that isnt ever a possibility but in this case id like to think not

Im going to see her sat while shes babysitting, i'm willing to draw a line under everything now and go round there like normal as in truth ive probably been a bit off as well which maybe shes reacting to. If thats not enough and things dont feel right then i will call it a day, im hopefull everything will be cool and a night together will do us some good but if it isnt then its time to move on.

I will update the GD! lol

linktoinsanity · 16 Oct 2015 at 11:42

Well, good luck.

purplesky · 16 Oct 2015 at 11:43

Look, whether you like to believe it or not, women are always doing "things" with other men behind your back. For the men on here reading this who currently have girlfriends or wives, she most likely has had sex with another man within the last 3-6 months. Women are like that. They have options at all times, even the not so attractive ones. Women need constant attention, and we all know that after the 3 month honeymoon period, the spark fades, more so for women. Best advice? Stop texting and phoning. And when she texts you, reply with one word answers. It will either make her more interested or you'll have your answer. Its all just a game, and whatever you do, you have to make it clear that you have options too.

spulse · 16 Oct 2015 at 11:47

purplesky said:
For the men on here reading this who currently have girlfriends or wives, she most likely has had sex with another man within the last 3-6 months. Women are like that.

i'm sorry you've had such awful women in your life

teenwolf · 16 Oct 2015 at 11:51

she wants to bang someone else and she know's who! "if she hasn't already".
suck it up and move on.

antijoke · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:04

JohnnyG said:
Errrr..Pics of GF before advice??

This is coming from a moderator?

:rolleyes:

elh_2009 · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:29

teenwolf said:
she wants to bang someone else and she know's who! "if she hasn't already".
suck it up and move on.

Seriously? you think every woman is like this?

This thread is putting some serious doubts in my mind now lol

areksnumbr1sxylady · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:30

Just buy new one.

Daftbrown · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:33

purplesky said:
Look, whether you like to believe it or not, women are always doing "things" with other men behind your back. For the men on here reading this who currently have girlfriends or wives, she most likely has had sex with another man within the last 3-6 months. Women are like that. They have options at all times, even the not so attractive ones. Women need constant attention, and we all know that after the 3 month honeymoon period, the spark fades, more so for women. Best advice? Stop texting and phoning. And when she texts you, reply with one word answers. It will either make her more interested or you'll have your answer. Its all just a game, and whatever you do, you have to make it clear that you have options too.

You're coming straight in at the extreme end there.

lafemmefatale · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:35

purplesky said:
Look, whether you like to believe it or not, women are always doing "things" with other men behind your back. For the men on here reading this who currently have girlfriends or wives, she most likely has had sex with another man within the last 3-6 months. Women are like that.

Quoted for the truth.

antijoke · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:36

purplesky said:
Look, whether you like to believe it or not, women are always doing "things" with other men behind your back. For the men on here reading this who currently have girlfriends or wives, she most likely has had sex with another man within the last 3-6 months. Women are like that. They have options at all times, even the not so attractive ones. Women need constant attention, and we all know that after the 3 month honeymoon period, the spark fades, more so for women. Best advice? Stop texting and phoning. And when she texts you, reply with one word answers. It will either make her more interested or you'll have your answer. Its all just a game, and whatever you do, you have to make it clear that you have options too.

kevy1986 · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:42

"Booo Hooo, she hasn't text me"

Time to put your tampon in or man up !

spoffle · 16 Oct 2015 at 12:51

We was txting ect bruv