Advices needed : Relationship

he was going to ask her out, i already did that :D ! more seriously yeah i should be more alpha and i'll be this week-end or im gonna hate myself forever

sometimes i wish i could just COOLDOWN i mean come on why should i be nervous about it
 
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If you're too nervous opening your mouth to ask her out, think like this people get shot in Iraq everyday, so why should you be too scared to ask a girl out? A good chance for you to learn to get used to rejection, so that you will never be shy again :D I'm sure she will say yes!
 
I was exactly the same as you mate.

Took me a couple years (yes years!!!) to build up the confidence to ask a girl out I was infatuated with, despite being 99% sure she liked me. By the time I finally did it she had a boyfriend! Gutted!

Then again I didn't even try asking another girl I really liked out because I thought she wasn't interested and way out of my league. Turns out she actually liked me and made a move 6 months later and now she is my girlfriend ^^. Gutted I didn't make a move initially as she is now the other side of the world and I have missed out on more time with her before she left!

The general point is generally bad things happen if you don't go for it!!
 
Any progress Leodido?

The girl I asked for drinks sometime next week has asked me to go the cinema with her tonight :eek:

The one day/night I'm busy this week though! So hope she keeps it open for next week.
 
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Any progress Leodido?
The girl I asked for drinks sometime next week has asked me to go the cinema with her tonight :eek:
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nice to hear it mate :p

On my side, im going to ask her out tomorow, like we did last week will see what she says but im confident she will say yes! Yeah like im confident... ;)
 
i asked her out again, and she said she was going to go out with her female friends, but she said we should arrange it later. Thing is it's the third time she tells me that. Starting to think she is just being nice to me because she cant tell me to **** off...
 
why dont you just be blunt with her and say something along the lines of 'well you'v knocked me back x amount of times now, im wondering if i should just give up yet?'
Usually girls will see this as an easy way to be truthful.
 
It's amazing once you get over these kind of residual teenagery awkward fears because you literally just don't care anymore and are free to ask out who you want and be yourself while doing it. It's definetly holding back and lack of self confidence that will lead to dissapointment and heartbreak.

Anyway good luck to you Mr OP, I bet she's a great girl.
 
yes and it's really sad because you cant really do anything against it beside keeping up and hoping it goes away sometimes...
 
So i finally made the move yesterday, patheticly but i did it at least ;)

She said that she didn't know what she wanted these times :confused:, but she also said she thinks im a really nice guy :o but that for now she don't really want to think about it much.

Im quite confused with her answer :D, it doesn't really change anything, i know im going to see her again, guess im just going to keep it cool and see where it gets...
 
Well done :)

and yup thats 100% a girl answer! worse than polatitions(sp?)! Just take it easy but keep an eye out for other guys that she might be holding off on you for, then you can ether play or get rid if you dont *** to play the girl games they like to play.
 
be less interested, you're scaring her off, this is the typical girl game, chances are she'll hate not having the attention and soon do a 180 and want babies.
 
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