Advices needed : Relationship

[Clinkz]

Sorry dude, this is for your own good:

She said that she didn't know what she wanted these times ,

No girl ever knows what she wants; All this excuse says is you are not it.

but she also said she thinks im a really nice guy

Nice guy = boring

HOWEVER, dont let this dishearten you. By approaching her you did the right thing, even if it hasnt payed off. The next time you approach a girl, you will be more confident.

 

[Mr-White]

so true so stop pussy footing about and ask her out. if she says no move on to her mate, if she says yes it's a result. either way you'll stop feeling so frustrated

MW

 

[Stinky]

HOWEVER, dont let this dishearten you. By approaching her you did the right thing, even if it hasnt payed off. The next time you approach a girl, you will be more confident.

girls never know what they want, i been told "not sure if i want another relationship yet" so many times.

but at least they know how you feel and if you see them about you can still go out have a laugh, you never no what might happen in the future. "I dont know what i want" isnt always a bad thing, some just take there time and mean "i want to take things slow and want to get to know you" but without knowing the girl or you in this matter its a tough call lol

 

[peetee]

indeed, they usually change there mind when they realise you are sincere and genuine and are very interested, then they'll chase you about games are fun when you win

 

[Stinky]

indeed. untill you let them win to early which i think i've done. seem less interested now lol.

woman are evil cretures

 

[Leodido]

i'd like if she would chase me about Anyway again this week-end i saw her all days so surely when you dont like someone you dont go seeing him all days and we are going at some party tonight.. On the other hand we also have a few common friends so.. anyways it was great fun i guess it's the important part.

Also as she is really shy i "hope" she just want to know me more before telling me how she feels, and to see if i'm really interested in her and not just a sex thing

 

[Leodido]

well it's over for good I messed up turns out she is not interested at all beside the ****** friend zone... Yay me, going out to get drunk

 

[Surfer]

to be quite honest with you.

Women do not know what they want.

They will say they want to be your friend but you just go "ok whatever" so do your own thing. Just dont get hung up on them at all. Why? because theres plenty more out there.

tell me what you chances of success are in the following:

a) hit on 10 women

b) hit on 1 woman

Obviously more chances of success the more women you speak to/flirt/hit on.

So dude do it.

 

[Leodido]

so here i am, back from my drunk fest. It's midday im still drunk, i saw her again, i tried to avoid being too close to her it was hard! I ended really drunk and she was kissing another guy, nice night in short... think we can let the thread die now The thing that suck is that im going to see her often because she's going out everyday and it's a small city... It was the last episode of [email protected]

 

[Fubsy]

Damn, that sucks. Sorry to hear about how this turned out.

Seems that it's going the same way with me atm. Same thing happens everytime.