After being with your girlfriend for a while you run out of things to do...

PESolution said:
Man, the ONE thing i would change about the missus would be to make her like games, she detests them and just doesnt understand them at all. The only games that i have ever got her on are Lego indiana Jones on co-op, Simpsons on co-op and a Murder Mystery point and click on the PC.

/me drools at the thought of a hot gaming girlfriend, lawl

On a serious note its okay that she doesnt like gaming, as my gaming is my alone time which is needed
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My mate the lucky ******* and his missus have both a gaming PC, 360 and PS3 each. She keeps saying her main vices in live is cooking, gaming and...you know.... She is smoking hot too. I love her :(
 
Totality said:
Sounds like you two got together at a young age and barely have anything in common! Now you're getting older it's becoming clearer and you're just together for the sake of it. Wait till she meets someone at work who shares the same interests and you'll be the new magic_x! \o/
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Grrrrrrr ;)
 
Hiking and bush walking is good:)

I just have to gett he girlfriend to go which canb be a bit tricky sometimes.

:(
 
HangTime said:
I think the advantage of living together is that you never (rarely) feel under pressure to 'do something'. When you live apart, it kinda feels like any time you spend together without doing something exciting (whatever that may be - holidays, cinema, pubs, meals, gaming, dancing, 'unclean antics'...) is almost like wasted time. When you live in the same house, it really doesn't matter if a couple of days go by and literally all you've done is sit in front of the PC while she's watching soaps. Because you know that you haven't 'wasted' any effort/money travelling to meet each other, getting ready etc.

Now maybe this is just my attitude (some might suggest it means I've never found true love), but I don't think that you need to spend every spare minute with someone doing something to have a good relationship. We're there for each other when we're needed, but part of being an individual is being able to make your own fun. Something don't have any trouble with - I never get bored at home, there's always more games to play / films to watch / books to read etc.
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Wow, so I'm not the only one who thinks like that. Short breaks are a must if you feel like exploring... of course, it completely depends what she likes, we loved spending 4 days down in Cornwall.
 
if you are getting bored of each other now, dont move in with each other!

at the moment, the evenings you see each other you can talk about the stuff you have done since last time you saw each other. this fills some time.
if you were living together, that time would be spread out over the whole day and seem like a lot less time in total.
therefore, you would have more time to be bored.

not good
 
Threaten to dump her and tell her you don't think the relationship is going anywhere, or you've been playing around. That'll give you something to talk about.
 
Tip out all your shrapnel and spare change and take her for an ice cream while you wasted all your spare change betting on those shady horse racing games down the slots.
 
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