After being with your girlfriend for a while you run out of things to do...

PESolution

PESolution

PESolution

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...so spec me some activities (keep it clean) that we could spend time doing together on evening and weekends.

We've been together for coming up to 4 years this January and it's getting to the stage of sitting in on a night bored and not being able to think of anything to do other than go out for meals/cinema/on the drink.

So what do you people do with your better halfs to keep busy?
 
Wow, 4 years new years eve for my girlfriend and I too. Also suffering from the same problem. Sick of porking her so new thrills are a must!
 
Go to the Gym together & work on perfecting each others bodys.
Investigate both your family trees together.
Search out architecture & places of interest to visit, Take pics make a scrap book, DVD whatever.
Make Babys.
 
We spend some time doing things we enjoy seperately. She gardens, reads, watches EVERY tv programme there is ( :P ), and I play PC games. We both enjoy our time spent apart and have plenty of time together as well. Been 5 years.
 
malc30 said:
Go to the Gym together & work on perfecting each others bodys.
Investigate both your family trees together.
Search out architecture & places of interest to visit, Take pics make a scrap book, DVD whatever.
Make Babys.
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Thankyou for the first serious reply. We were talking about joining the gym toether the other week as it happens! Far too young for babies though! (22 and 21)
 
Yeah, you need to have your own activities and friends to have separate time and not saturate eachother with your company.

Speaking as someone who has done the latter twice and is now learning not to!
 
In reply to above, we do have time apart doing our own thing and its great. The issues are when were together not having anything original to do!
 
sara said:
How often do you see each other?

Or, if you live with each other - indeed, it's worth seeking out separate hobbies, I think.
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We still both live with our parents with a view to move in with each other once we can afford it. We see each other on average perhaps 3-4 times a week
 
To be honest, going on a few small / short breaks over the weekend would be nice.

But then it depends if you like generally travelling and investigating new areas...I'll quite happily go away to a random place for a weekend, and just walk around seeing the general sites for instance.

If you book early enough matey you can get some cracking weekend holidays to be honest.

It could be something as simple as going for a bike ride once a week together or something, it doesn't exactly have to be strenuous!
 
Agreed, far to young for babys. At your ages I'd get down to planning the Ultimate adventure holiday & then set out a plan on how you will both achieve it. Little fund raising projects , Route planning etc
Do a round the World or summit ending up in New Zealand for some Serious adventuring.
You could start planning now & learning the basics of a new langauge together.
 
PESolution said:
We still both live with our parents with a view to move in with each other once we can afford it. We see each other on average perhaps 3-4 times a week
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3- 4 times a week? Christ, don't move in yet if your having troubles already communicating :p
 
In a way i think it will be better if we move in together. As at the moment when we see each other its like visiting and you expect to be doing something etc, but when you live together you dont really have to be doing something 'different' or going out,m and can enjoy each others company even if just sat in watching TV etc. Atleast i hope thats how its going to be..
 
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