am a right idiot

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"We broke up wanting to give ourselves space to grow"

Yet you have been living in the SAME HOUSE together

facepalm, fail.
 
But you two aren't together?

So where's the problem?

Both of your getting ritzd off at each other for bringing people home when you aren't even together?

Start communicating properly because it sounds like a colossal waste of each other's time.
 
I had the same agreement in place with my ex some years ago, It was our place pretty much when we were together, but my name was on everything, so when we split I pretty much had ownership and she was there out of courtesy...

The rule was a simple one. She can stay aslong as she didnt bring people back to the flat, and I would do the same. I dont want to here her at it with someone else, and vice versa.

Long story short, I finished work early one day and found a bike parked up outside my flat. Now I wasnt in so, fair enough. it shouldnt be that much of a problem, but it became a problem when i noticed my bedroom light was on. You see, She had been sleeping on a temporary bed in the living room.... So they had been in my bedroom, on my bed. So I was ****** off.

I knocked on the door(yes my own front door), and shouted so she knew it was me. She came and answered looking sheepish. I said I was going for a walk, and he had best be gone when I get back. I nipped to the local takeaway, got a can of coke. Drank it on the way back and when I arrived home, Bike was gone.

Thats when I gave her a week to find somewhere else to live, and she did.

Fin.
 
Dear god, I can't believe what I am reading. If you did care for her you wouldn't have done it sober or drunk. You split up and you got some new action.

Move out, pull another bird and move on. Simples.
 
Look, you're either together or you're not. Less of this umming and ahhing.

If it's unfair you bringing girls back, it's just as unfair for her to keep you strung along whilst she's being a headacase.

Stand up for yourself. If you're not together, she doesn't have a damn bit of authority over your sex-life anymore. You're a grown man, not a bit of convenience for her.

/Prepares to be flamed.

I agree with Nix 100%, umadbro?
 
naw, we split the rent in half.
in actual fact its my loss. She loves to cook and does most of the cooking.
she also keeps the place amazingly clean. What more of a housemate could you ask for?

How about the right to meet up with someone and have some fun? Giggity.

If it's a problem, which it is, time for one of you to get another place.
 
I watched Jermey Kyle for the first time ever today. But I couldn't catch the ending.

Your situation is pretty similar to the guy on the show. Have a baby with ex, and it should all work out ok :)
 
Good work. Now it will be over and you can stop being children and move on with your lives.
 
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