Even at 4000mhz, you only get to a theoretical 64GB/s, which is behind a 7750 and 7770. Unless DDR4 comes in at 128bit bus width, which I've not seen suggested, it will still put the brakes on IGP performance.
Actual bandwidth of a discrete gpu is irrelevant. If you go from a 20gb/s to 40gb/s you double the bandwidth available to the igpu, which will increase performance, it's really that simple.
You're saying you have lets say 50% of a 7770 performance on die because it's lacking bandwidth, and with ddr4 that is still only 75%, but that is a 50% increase on the previous igpu, thus a massive increase.
As for what's available in ddr3, there is a power problem with that, higher voltage mem, and cost. it's being pushed beyond the spec it was designed for.
What is ultra expensive ddr3 memory, will be "cheap" by ddr4 standards. IE ddr3 2400Mhz sticks are say £80, 3000Mhz, the cheapest pack still 2x4gb is £400, the 2900 is £300 or something. There are exceptionally few sticks doing those speeds, with ddr4 probably 4.5-5.5Ghz will be those stupid sticks, the cheapest sticks will end up as 3+Ghz it will be decently priced up to 4Ghz.
Either way, we're waiting on tsv's and silicon level connection between separate chips on the same package... connected on die with stacked memory with WAY beyond 128bit = igpu bandwidth problem a thing of the past.
DDR4 is both about density, speed, and lower power. Once you get it lower power, stacked, high density then it becomes viable to add the cost of a transposers/tsvs which is are just about doable but, everything needs to be the right thing to make it all work.
One of the reasons for ddr4 being delayed is ddr3 speeds. If ddr4 launched 2 years ago at 2133mhz, then the mass production would lead to tweaking and ddr4 could be significantly beyond 3Ghz by now(or just there, who knows). Thing is when something is in production is when you get a ramp in speeds. As ddr3 speed increases, ddr4 is pushed back(partly for other things also, tsv's and the like to become cheaper to do) but the speed is a problem. If ddr3 2400 is widely available, whats the point of releasing lower speed ddr4, so they are trying to ramp it up, but without the mass production that usually leads to these improvements. It's a bit of a cluster **** at the moment and Intel/AMD have likely released at least one, maybe two generations of products on memory they thought would be faster/cheaper by now.