Those EPYC CPU's are running at little over 2Ghz.
That's a Power9, The strongest version ARM have, its whats in those ARM servers you like talking about, the ones that prove ARM are as good as Intel / AMD... Not.. What secrete source are Apple doing to make them many multiple factors faster?
Or is it all just faked marketing? you know, Like how Intel like to use specific versions of Sandra to show how good their CPU's are.....
Er, POWER9 is not ARM by any definition.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/POWER9
Anyway, that x86 is a very poor ISA is no secret. IBM originally going with the 8088 for the IBM PC rather choosing for example a Motorola 68000 or 68008, was one of the worst decisions in computer history. Imagine all those years of having to worry about 64KB memory segment, 16-bit modes and the contortions programmers had to go through with x86, 286 and 386 mode were painful. Motorola 68k on the other hand, while a very complex CISC chip, had 32 bit address and data registers from the word go in 1979. Let me repeat: Motorola 68K had 32 bit registers back in 1979!
Now, as they say the rest is history and at the end of the day a bad design (Intel 8086) which had huge amount of resources poured into from the enormous size of the PC market was bound to eventually become a fast design. While 086, 286 and 386 were in many ways poor design where each generation mainly concentrated on getting rid of the 16 bit x86 baggage, by the time of the 486 Intel's huge revenues allowed them to design a pretty good chip.
However, economics of scale are hard to ignore which is why I think Intel's biggest mistake (and there have been many usually at a cost of a few $billion each), was refusing to take high-volume lower margin stuff seriously and being to afraid that Atom would cannibalise their high margin stuff. Ironically this is not too dissimilar to the early workstation RISC vendors who didn't take Intel with its (lower margin) high volume chips seriously until it was too late.
Anyway, the low margin high volume stuff is what enabled the ARM players (and ultimately anyone using TSMC) do is gain enough experience to become a thread. The ARM designer are pretty clever at what they do, but until recently they haven't gone after desktop stuff.
And adapting a low power design to high power desktop/server usage isn't as easy as just cranking up the power. Memory, interconnect, cache designs are all vastly different when every mA counts. On Epyc the interconnect, IO etc. (the non-core parts) take up way more power than any mobile could ever afford.
However, what we enthusiast probably like the best about PCs is that (mostly by accident) there is a DIY market, whereas Apple and a lot of ARM vendors just want to buy disposable rubbish (Huawei before their recent trouble were keen to push those silly proprietary MM card instead of microSD, Apple were of course the first to solder everything, and make total landfill fodder, etc.).
So, while I don't think there is any major technical reason why ARM can't take a large part of the market, and there are genuine reasons why x86 has overheads which ARM or RISC-V do not have, I won't be impressed if this leads to the demise of the DIY market.