Another sad & depressed thread

62 posts for TTIUWP!? you lot are slacking

I agree with most of whats been said, in particular the punching of ovaries, spade high five and the happy slapping :D
 
dude
your 15
does it realy matter?

dump her and go screw a load of other college girls next semseter.
trust me, being attached at college is WAY bad, make LOADS of m8s, don't get tied up with one girl and life will be the shellfish of you choise!

(mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm scollopes)

best time to be hitched with a girl is AFTER education as you have way less chances to meet new people then.
 
Blackstar said:
Is it me or has the number of young people on the forums trebled?

Aren't you one of them?

She's just a kid, there's no point in even trying to have a serious relationship at that age. She's looking for attention elsewhere because she feels you're not giving her enough, but instead of trying to agree on something with you, she is taking all she can get. Accept that or get rid of her.
 
cleanbluesky said:
I love the deep anguish of an early teenager obssessing about a female as if it were the end of the world - there is little more delicious and terrifying about that feeling and it is hard to recapture...


Its funny cos its true :D
 
End it and go live. Im only 18 myself (almost 19) and i got into what ended up as a 2 year relationship when i was 16 and if i could go back to then I sure as hell wouldn't get myself into owt like that again.
 
iCraig said:
High five her forehead with a spade, and move on.

She just sounds like a typical whiney brat who craves attention. Cut your losses and find a nice girl who suits you better. :)

True so true. ;)

I had the same problem but I just got away from her, not want I wanted at all. Where abouts in Somerset are you btw?!
 
100% of the posts say ditch her. I would do the same.

If she winges now imagine what she will be like in 20 years. I know it's not easy, first proper girlfriend and all that but you will be better for it in the end. Enjoy your time on your own and with your mates, worry about girls when your older.
 
When your older...... you'll look at posts like this and laugh. Believe me.

Anyways, ...... and here's some advice that may fly over your head but im sure a lot of people will agree............. Most women under the age of 25 are absolutely BONKERS. They dont know who they are, what they want, or where they want it. Once they hit that 20's mid point you'll be surprised at how much many of them change.

Either way, you can either play the game - or bide your time. You have 10 years left before you even need to give 1% of a hoot about things like this. SERIOUSLY!

Have fun and stop stressing - just dont get anyone knocked up or mess anyone around.
 
Basically.. I think I've decided I dont want to be with her anymore.. but just the thought of seeing her with someone else makes me feel ill.. When I'm not around I'm certain I dont want to be with her but when I'm around her my feelings change. Pretty typical for a teenager though i guess? in short Naffa = :( atm..

Isotope said:
Where abouts in Somerset are you btw?!
Bridgwater, well Goathurst to be precise.
 
Not an insult, just an observation; Is it just me or are people growing up to fast? A relationship thread at 15? Girls just after the attention? Feelings? Commitment? But you're 15..bleh, i sound old. I'm 18 in June. :o
 
SideWinder said:
Not an insult, just an observation; Is it just me or are people growing up to fast? A relationship thread at 15? Girls just after the attention? Feelings? Commitment? But you're 15..bleh, i sound old. I'm 18 in June. :o
I agree with you totally.. I'm thinking to myself "Why the hell am I in a relationship now??" I got enough stress with coursework and exams and having a girlfriend especially one like Grace is just unnecesarily escalating the stress :(

My mum thinks the same thing.. just not needed at this age.
 
naffa said:
I agree with you totally.. I'm thinking to myself "Why the hell am I in a relationship now??" I got enough stress with coursework and exams and having a girlfriend especially one like Grace is just unnecesarily escalating the stress :(

My mum thinks the same thing.. just not needed at this age.

I mean, is it something that now happens in general? Parties with alcohol, people pulling each other, getting together? I've noticed it at school, mainly its the chavs with girlfriends but still, not implying you're a chav. :p

Relationships can surely not be taken seriously so young..and it seems to be the guys looking for commitment, girls more, relaxed about it all?
 
SideWinder said:
bleh, i sound old. I'm 18 in June. :o

Gosh... your lucky, 18!! try being 20 :/ feel my back go already :p

Girlfriends at 15....... :/ lol, cant say i've been there, all i can say is from what ive heard and from friends around me, who have experienced 'young love' its utter bs, girls nowadays are turning into either chavs or skanks, showing off as much flesh as possible.
Dump her and be happy, you shouldnt be considering "suicide" at your age, you have your whole life ahead of you and its only just begun, dont let a stupid bint ruin your life.

Life is more important than Girls. Be happy :)

/Gigi
 
Sounds quite petty really. Just ask her straight out if she's been doing stuff with him. Make it clear exactly what you want. I've had my beliefs confirmed recently that if you don't talk to your partner or make things clear then you might as well say goodbye.
 
SideWinder said:
I mean, is it something that now happens in general? Parties with alcohol, people pulling each other, getting together? I've noticed it at school, mainly its the chavs with girlfriends but still, not implying you're a chav. :p

Relationships can surely not be taken seriously so young..and it seems to be the guys looking for commitment, girls more, relaxed about it all?
I'm not a chav :D If i was then Jake would be beaten straight to hell and back... I don't drink alcohol when I'm at parties, I did once at new year but not this new year, the one before and i didnt like it. I agree with the fact that relationships should not be taken so seriously at this age.. even if you think that youre mature etc.. and I believe myself to be more so than average, theres no way at this time in my life im ready for a fully commited relationship of this proportion. I just can't deal with it.
 
naffa said:
I'm not a chav :D If i was then Jake would be beaten straight to hell and back... I don't drink alcohol when I'm at parties, I did once at new year but not this new year, the one before and i didnt like it. I agree with the fact that relationships should not be taken so seriously at this age.. even if you think that youre mature etc.. and I believe myself to be more so than average, theres no way at this time in my life im ready for a fully commited relationship of this proportion. I just can't deal with it.

Mm. End it. If anything, you sound more mature than her with this sort of thing and most of the girls around you. Sure its tempting but, leave it. Sort yourself out first, be happy. Don't go looking, wait for it to happen. :)

Take note of all the posts above mine also. :cool:
 
Yeah cheers. Believe it or not this thread has actually helped me :eek:
Think I'm just going to confront her and ask her if shes been cheating on me and why she feels it necessary to deney Jake going to her house. Then I will say "I will try and spend more time with you, but I wont be able to spend all my time with you.. Just not how I work baby. Take it or leave it :cool:"

Cheers for all your help :)
 
What if she pulls the sex card? I have big trouble making a stand with women when they have such pulling power. Just make sure she doesn't trick ya, seriously they have a habit.
 
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