I would say I used to be, or almost was, an Audiophile, back in the 90's.
The internet brought a few truths up, and then eBay sellers and cottage industry manufacturers really took many for a ride. Inc some respectable manufacturers who completely turned around.
I got sick of the forums, the abuse, the internet experts. I got labelled as a Foo believer because I had valid points on both sides which no one could be bothered with as it was not their opinion and I had the audacity to have tried the darn stuff the non owners had an opinion about.
I did buy and sell a little, had people I new working in audio circles give me deals, and got some freebies in my time. But went too far and then could not afford the upkeep and space. Kids meant selling and disposal of thousands of records as I had no room, equipment got less use the more I read forums and magazines.
Currently I agree that cables are overpriced and not the be all and end all, I actually prefer a robust well made cable, Neutrik on no nonsense OFC copper of sufficient girth for the expected length of cable will suffice me.
And I got sick of audio racks, but more because I value the simplicity of a solid flat no nonsense wooden surface or rack mount than a spiked pile of glass and metal that needs constant cleaning and tweaking. Yet, even though that was my preference, because I had various audio racks and branded cables, I got labelled.
Room, speakers, amp, source, important in that order. Cables and supports are mainly eye candy, if they are making a huge difference to your listening pleasure something is wrong with your kit, if you find they enhance an already enjoyable balanced system, there is nothing wrong with buying racks and cables if your enjoy or feel they add something.
Me, well I would like to get a whole bunch of very clean nice XLR, RCA, and speaker leads, all flexible, pliable, soft n yummy with nice WBT/Neutrik connections. Because quite frankly I am sick of unyielding cables, tarnishing silver plugs and the perceived value of audio cables.
I want my equipment to sit in a nice solid wooden cabinet low enough for a 50/60" telly, but capable of taking US width transport/dac/per/power side by side, along with the Tivo and BluRay. Still not found a cabinet to do that.
And I regret not buying a Tact 2.2X and ATC SCM50a before I had a family. I also like PMC/Bryston kit, and would quite happily have the BB5/XB3 active system, one of the best percussion demo's I heard from a loudspeaker system.
I have a walk in cubby full of kit, Kef Reference, Rogers Studio, Linn Kan, Classe pre/powers, Krell pre/power, Theta Digital, Teac, Chord Signature, Anthem, Eccose, Mana, EAD etc etc.
Currently use a Technics SU-MA10 with an optic input, Kef Ref speakers, Naim Nac 4 as it was the right length, kids use it more than me.
The biggest problem for me, well it was all meant to be about music, buying CD's and records, listening to them, finding equipment that made you listen or enjoy more. I loved valves, but with solid state power amps as I liked low bass, I put my stereo before everything else in the house layout.
But when I moved to a smaller house it was not as good, I sold my valve pre's and never enjoyed the solid state as much, and with the forum stuff bringing the mood down I just found I distanced more and more, you can end up listening to the kit, forgetting to enjoy the actual music that started it all.
I would like to get back into it, would be happy with all my digital media on a NAS, using a tablet as a remote, with a decent USB dac.
But we don't have a disposable income since having three kids lol.