Soldato
paragraphs!I've back-read the last 6 or 7 pages or so, even the halogen oven posts!!! instant-pot duo for me!!! On topic, I came to Brum 94 for my degree, worked the city, almost killed myself, quit, went into nursing. I started renting a small 2 bed + boxroom terrace, £400 a month. Did the place up, put new kitchen / bathroom, laminate flooring etc, landlord was really good paid for the materials and my time, never put the rent up in 11 years.. First Daughter comes along Mar 08, start looking at property, hospital I work at is moving only 15 mins extra walk but to a much higher priced area. Start looking on rightmove at other towns, already knew simply couldn't afford the area to stay working where I was. Unbelievably, I'm going to look at a property we can just about afford, like proper beans on toast for 5 years, 5 mins from the new hospital, I see a guy in a corner house whacking a for sale sign in the front garden.. I don't believe in fate, but what are the chances? Happens to be the largest plot, also potential to build almost another house on the side. Big problem, we'd saved near £35k with our cheap rent, but the bank only would let us have an offset mortgage with paying 68k upfront. (The crash had just happened) Without my folks, I wouldn't be here typing. They stepped in and cashed in some of their investments and made up the difference. Now I have 2 kids, I'm already worrying about how they will get on the ladder, renting is dead cash, but it's ok if you aren't paying a huge amount, the place is decent, and you can save. Childcare is bonkers money, I could work full time for £40 / week and have someone else bring up my kids.. or I could stay at home bring up the kids and try and offset some of the costs. With children you want to give them the best food, I noticed add 'organic' to anything basically x3 the price. Using the plot we have I constructed raised beds, I bought a big greenhouse, in the summer all salad /tomatoes cucumbers and for 9 months of the year onions garlic etc all comes from the garden. I trade extras I have with a few folk on the street so I get chutneys and jams, home cooking etc. There are plenty of ways to save money, but getting on the ladder took the intervention of my folks, the last few years, wages have sat still, but prices, even of basic things have gone up, gas water electricity etc not to mention food. I notice this a lot more as I do the books for us as a family. I scour the internet for deals, I haven't had a new computer in 10 years!!! Currently my quidco is sat at 640 quid, so I'm hoping when I reach 1000, that's my present for the research! My dad thought he had it tough when he bought his first house, but by history it's getting tougher each year, the trick is to start doing things now, however small, it's amazing what a difference they make 10-15 years later. Sorry if it's a bit long
TLDR : My parents bailed me out 33k!