Im out, no wants to be seen to be a Vulva helping a Volvo.
The craziest thing about being active on a multibrand motors forum is not using it to help yourself
This thread has turned into a different tangent (as usual on the forum), there are things in life where one should learn, one that you should just leave it to others. We all draw the line differently for different things.
Some people never learn to cook, I think it's easy to make anything.
Some people never learn to fix their own IT problem. I have never needed to call IT support.
Some people never learn to DIY, I know someone even built their own house, everything from drawing the plans to laying the brickwork. (it's not actually that hard)
I chose car being something I won't fix if it require tools, I made that decision couple of decades ago. I just don't want to get a bunch of tools that sits there and never use, and especially when it is under the car, fear of being crushed. it's a never-ending rabbit hole I choose not to go down to. I have this personality where once I start tinkering things, it never stops. Cars is a bottomless pit, if I start getting into it more than I do now, where I draw the line at - keep everything 100% stock and original and that means Volvo Parts. Rather than - replacing parts because it's better, then I will go into "oh perhaps I will try that part, may be that intake is better, or that exhaust is better. This is the kind of personality I have. Once the door opens, I go in deep.
Side note - which goes back to my other point, just because I didn't tell you before, don't assume the worst, because the worst here would be me going very deep and start modding my car and spending thousands if not tens of thousands on it. It is why I got a Mac...the fact that they can't be upgraded is a GOOD thing, it might be more expensive at first, but I don't touch it and just use it. I know about this side of my character, to stop my tinkering...I cut it off at the start. Set a limit, even if the cost at the high at the beginning, it saves me money in the long run.
This is probably more than you want to know. I do this with every hobby I have...it's something in my head that makes me not jump in at all or jump in deep. Case in point - 2 days ago I was looking for a 17mm Hex socket so I can mod my Gaggia espresso machine. Instead of getting 1 single socket that does the job, I end up with a set of Wera costing £150 in my basket! I started with a £64 set and thought...this £81 set has a nicer ratchet spanner...noooo, this £100 set has a Zyklops that replaces both screw driver AND spanner....and no...this £150 is even better value with more bits, this is how my mind works, I know myself enough to know that once I commit, I go in hard.
And no, I stopped myself getting it completely, because a set of Draper for £25 would also do the same job. This is who I am, go in deep....and it is expensive!
So do you now know why I just want genuine Volvo parts? From not wanting to work on my own car and not opening the pandora box of car maintenance/upgrades.