Ok cheers thanks for your positivity
It’s not like getting married or anything . It’s a skill to learn. I play 8 musical instruments. I practiced 8 hours a day since 15. Once I decide to do something I poor all my energy into it.
Btw you seem to be making this thread very complicated.My question in the OP was not that deep
Ok. I was sort of hoping you'd be able to piece it together from my last post but evidently not so here we go.
Musical instruments can be used to play music, which is pretty much a universal language. Even if you don't understand the lyrics, anyone can boogie to anything.
A language is much more restrictive, it can be spoken in a handful of countries at best and on the odd occasion when you bump in to someone else who speaks it. In most cases, unless you actively put in the effort to approach people to practice, you won't gain experience or improve. You can literally sit in a phone box, flop out a guitar and start strumming and improve upon your abilities. You can't do that with a foreign language.
My point is, learning a foreign language is indeed a wonderful thing and I will genuinely applaud you if you pull it off despite not living in that language's native country, but there are tons of different languages out there and basing your decision on "a recent experience" is silly. It's your decision, learn Swahili if you want, but make sure the choice you've made is the one that'll benefit you the most.
Oh and if you want people to tell you you can do it and it's gonna be easy and all that motivational rubbish, ring your mum. Learning a language is seriously, seriously difficult and telling yourself it'll be easy is just doing yourself a disservice.
Anyway, the thing that helped me with Dutch the most apart from every single interaction beyond my front door being in Dutch, was Dutch telly. Films were always in English with Dutch subtitles. I dunno if the Portuguese do the same or dub over everything like ze Chermanz.
Once you have a few words down, start listening to Portuguese radio. Find a channel which has a common interest with you and tune in when you're doing stuff. That'll help with the pronunciation although you need to make sure it's not some back alley dialect (like I had with Westfries in Dutch, nobody understands those people).