Genuinely though if you think it will help her confidence then well why not?
Boob job?
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Genuinely though if you think it will help her confidence then well why not?
I'm not sure women in general need any more confidence than they already have these days 
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But seriously, my wife has had hers done as after 2 kids they were affected a bit more from gravity than she wasnt comfortable with. You can get some good credit deals these days so there is no reason to get it done on a budget. Get a proper job done.
One more word of advice. If she's says she will pay for them then record the conversation and make her sign something that is proof read by your solicitor.... Mine said that and I ended up paying for them anyway....
They also won't make a difference to your sex life, it doesn't change their libido either, they don't suddenly turn into a pornstar (unfortunately).
You also need to consider what sort of confidence they will bring and if you are comfortable with that. Thankfully my wife doesn't walk about without a bra on acting like they are the best assets she has but I know they can make some girls a bit over confident and I can see how that might drive a partner up the wall.
Personally I liked her boobs before and I also preferred them, not that I'll ever tell her that. She's happy with them and that's important.
.But seriously, my wife has had hers done as after 2 kids they were affected a bit more from gravity than she wasnt comfortable with. You can get some good credit deals these days so there is no reason to get it done on a budget. Get a proper job done.
One more word of advice. If she's says she will pay for them then record the conversation and make her sign something that is proof read by your solicitor.... Mine said that and I ended up paying for them anyway....
They also won't make a difference to your sex life, it doesn't change their libido either, they don't suddenly turn into a pornstar (unfortunately).
You also need to consider what sort of confidence they will bring and if you are comfortable with that. Thankfully my wife doesn't walk about without a bra on acting like they are the best assets she has but I know they can make some girls a bit over confident and I can see how that might drive a partner up the wall.
Personally I liked her boobs before and I also preferred them, not that I'll ever tell her that. She's happy with them and that's important.
If you have to do this when married anyway then id just file for divorce now. Wow.I'm not sure women in general need any more confidence than they already have these days
But seriously, my wife has had hers done as after 2 kids they were affected a bit more from gravity than she wasnt comfortable with. You can get some good credit deals these days so there is no reason to get it done on a budget. Get a proper job done.
One more word of advice. If she's says she will pay for them then record the conversation and make her sign something that is proof read by your solicitor.... Mine said that and I ended up paying for them anyway....
They also won't make a difference to your sex life, it doesn't change their libido either, they don't suddenly turn into a pornstar (unfortunately).
You also need to consider what sort of confidence they will bring and if you are comfortable with that. Thankfully my wife doesn't walk about without a bra on acting like they are the best assets she has but I know they can make some girls a bit over confident and I can see how that might drive a partner up the wall.
Personally I liked her boobs before and I also preferred them, not that I'll ever tell her that. She's happy with them and that's important.
Are you going to sue her for the money? Why on earth would you do this?
Cus she's my wife. Tbh it was a heavy time, she got into some money issues and this was one of the reasons so I bailed her out. She's not a bad person, just made a few mistakes
Im glad you asked, I was confused by that whole sentence.
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I dont get it lol. My wife wants some cosmetic stuff doing so we discuss it together and well if we can afford it its her call (her body etc) but we BOTH pay for it, Imagine going legal when paying for something lol.
From experience with an ex who had both types of implant back in the mid 00's (so maybe different now) -
Under the Muscle - smaller size increase (1 cup maybe 2 at most) but as it's between the boob and chest it feels most natural as all you've done is push the natural boob forward a little.
Over the Muscle - these are the implants that sit inside the boob and so skin stretching the size limiter. Felt very unnatural and stretched her nipple something terrible.
My ex initially was a 32B, went for under the muscle for a 34C (I think) and looked great, but she always wanted bigger (a very confident woman usually, boobs were an insecurity since childhood) so after a few years she had the old implants removed and had ridiculous (to me as she had a small frame) DD implants done in Turkey which were bloody awful looking to me.
She said she liked them but you could tell she wasn't 100% happy with the look but didn't want to say anything as then "I'd be right". The relationship went down-hill and with 6 months we'd split and my understanding is that she's had a few more boob-jobs since but still isn't happy with them. In the end it's more of a mental issue for some folks than a physical issue and once you start surgery with more permanent effects (such as the stretching from an over the muscle implant) you never know how well it'll come out and once it's done you're screwed if it's a bad job.
Under the Muscle - smaller size increase (1 cup maybe 2 at most) but as it's between the boob and chest it feels most natural as all you've done is push the natural boob forward a little.
Over the Muscle - these are the implants that sit inside the boob and so skin stretching the size limiter. Felt very unnatural and stretched her nipple something terrible.
My ex initially was a 32B, went for under the muscle for a 34C (I think) and looked great, but she always wanted bigger (a very confident woman usually, boobs were an insecurity since childhood) so after a few years she had the old implants removed and had ridiculous (to me as she had a small frame) DD implants done in Turkey which were bloody awful looking to me.
She said she liked them but you could tell she wasn't 100% happy with the look but didn't want to say anything as then "I'd be right". The relationship went down-hill and with 6 months we'd split and my understanding is that she's had a few more boob-jobs since but still isn't happy with them. In the end it's more of a mental issue for some folks than a physical issue and once you start surgery with more permanent effects (such as the stretching from an over the muscle implant) you never know how well it'll come out and once it's done you're screwed if it's a bad job.
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I'm not sure showing your partner the extensive research you've undertaken on the matter is a very good idea
Sounds more like you were helping a mate down the pub.
How so? You must be pretty kind to your mates lol
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I can't say "she got into some money issues and this was one of the reasons so I bailed her out" sounds very husband and wife.
Does or doesn't sound very husband and wife? We've always been pretty independent money wise as long as the bills got paid, the kids were fine and there was food on the table we didn't ask questions
Na I'd take em both!
And ass implants
Some bad advice and bad jokes on here . My Mrs is a crossfitter, very fit, lean and strong. Had hers done just before Covid hit and it has completely changed her life. He clothes fit better, she has a wider range of stuff to wear available and has the option of going bra less, she wasn't short of confidence before but has so much more now. They look and feel great, scars are underneath, tiny and barely noticeable. Doesn't interfere with anything she does including running and lifting weights. They look perfect. A couple of her mates got them done after as a result. Recovery was pretty tough for the first week but other than that she just wished she went a size bigger. The surgeon suggested a bigger size to begin with but think she got a bit freaked out and went a bit smaller.
It's not such a big deal these days. If you were to ask her advice she would 100% say do not go cheap, spend time finding the right surgeon and go as big as you can!
. My Mrs is a crossfitter, very fit, lean and strong. Had hers done just before Covid hit and it has completely changed her life. He clothes fit better, she has a wider range of stuff to wear available and has the option of going bra less, she wasn't short of confidence before but has so much more now. They look and feel great, scars are underneath, tiny and barely noticeable. Doesn't interfere with anything she does including running and lifting weights. They look perfect. A couple of her mates got them done after as a result. Recovery was pretty tough for the first week but other than that she just wished she went a size bigger. The surgeon suggested a bigger size to begin with but think she got a bit freaked out and went a bit smaller. It's not such a big deal these days. If you were to ask her advice she would 100% say do not go cheap, spend time finding the right surgeon and go as big as you can!