Boob job?

How do you feel about is what's most important not what a bunch of guys on the internet think.

Also it's your job to try and instil confidence in her by letting her how amazing she looks, complement her boobs make her feel like a million dollars when she's around you.
 
I wouldn't date someone with fake boobs tbh.
My ex often talked about getting a boob job, nose job etc just found it annoying tbh

There wasn't anything wrong with how she looked and if she has issues with how other people see her then she should probably see a therapist....
she had A cup boobs but looked totally fine naked... you could see where they were it's not like they are invisible... with a sports bra you can't tell they have small boobs anyway.

Her nose was pretty big German genes like... but it was a pretty attractive nose that suited her face. most people the nose adds character and a smaller button nose wouldn't suit their face anyway.

as people get older they probably realise it's pretty pointless to worry about how other people view them and just get on with life.
 
The question I would have is why does she feel insecure? Reality TV? Social media? Peer pressure? I think that needs addressing first.

Not a fan of plastic. Also they need care and servicing over the years. She may end up ok in normal life but then unhappy with being at the beach.
 
My ex had implants done and it really did up her confidence.
I wasn't that fussed tbh, but it was nice to see her happier and I got unlimited motorboating sessions.
Win win :D
 
Gigabit said:
My other half is insecure and has talked about getting them done. Thoughts?
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if she wants them for herself and if you can afford it then go for it. Make it clear you support her either way and that she doesn't need them for anyone other than herself and you think she looks great regardless.
 
Eurofighter said:
I think they look awful. Blatantly fake. Nearly as bad as massive lips.
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That depends imo how much is added.

I've a friend who was very conscious about having nothing at all and was quite withdrawn, but since having the right amount added, she has really come alive, they look great, feel great (I've been told) and she has started to feel much better in herself.
 
if she feels insecure then it can, will and most likely is affecting her mental health to some degree. talk things through, be supportive but also don't rush into it, as already mentioned don't go for the cheap option speak to more than just one surgeon to get as much information and professional advice that you can also don't think that speaking to your local GP would be no use they may have some suggestions of surgeons to speak to as well as the possibility of NHS options (but prob be better to avoid this if possible :) )

The too big and imo they look bad, right amount can be great, look at Kaley Cuoco vs Katie Price
 
Ultimately it's her body. It may or may not help her with her confidence. A lot of the women I know grew in confidence after sorting out their lifestyles post children which is often a trigger to change (of course there are others as well).

Some gym / exercise / diet and lifestyle changes can have an incredible impact on the body physically but also mentally. Also it can 'firm up' muscles enough to give things a 'lift'. Personally I love a nice bum and the gym can make bums look amazing, but even help the whole body be more pert and firm.

Surgery is quite a big step, if she's done everything else to improve how she feels and she's still not happy then of course supporting her is the right thing to do.

Ultimately she's your wife, you know her best. Here you'll get opinions of mainly males some of whom have had experience with implants from partners others not. Regardless other than giving opinions it's irrelevant as we don't know your wife. She may not feel any better after surgery.
 
bigmike20vt said:
indeed. my point was, and I didn't think I needed to spell it out but it seems I do. your comments could be incredibly hurtful should said lady be reading this thread or anyone else who are body conscious.
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She's got more problems than what she thinks of her rack, if she's reading GD to get validation on the opinion of what her partner thinks. Lighten up......
 
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