I bought my first house in or around 1989 when interested rates were around 10%, spiking to 15% as I recall. At that stage my basic wage was £12K and my OTE was £24K. A fair wage for the time when I think the average way was around £10K-£14K (I will stand corrected). My first house was £51,995 and was a 3 bedroom detached and on my basic wage it was a huge stretch, not least with interest rates as they were. I had to stretch hugely, but I had none of the costs today people seem to put onto themselves.
No internet
No mobile phone (I had a company car phone)
No Sky, Netflix, Amazon Prime etc
No car payments (I had a company car)
But I had a house that represented close to 4.3ish times my basic wage with an interest rate HUGELY different to today. I had to make massive sacrifices and lived in a house that was furnished with hand me downs, garden furniture for seats in the dining room etc. I begged borrowed and stealed but got there. I also lived in the Midlands in an un posh part so cut my cloth accordingly. Many of my friends could not afford houses like today. Problem is people won't give up on their phones, their toys, their posh cars for only £350 a month etc etc etc. The values of houses in the south are utterly crazy, but they have not rissen like that in most places.
Life was different in 1989 but no easier I assure you.