Boy thread (is that allowed?)!

Kell_ee001 said:
Probably true, but if she doesn't get the answer she wants, how would she feel? :(
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Would she feel better if she did the "subtle" way and found out after weeks of hint dropping and waiting for "the moment"?
 
LoadsaMoney said:
Id love to find an A girl, as all the girls who fancy me run away when they find out that i know this. :confused:
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Ok, well that's just weird :p

As I said earlier, I'm generally a point B girl although I have done A every before when I felt the guy just wasn't getting the hint! :p I only did it when I felt comfortable enough as B is a lot of fun, but can get frustrating!
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Ok, well that's just weird :p

As I said earlier, I'm generally a point B girl although I have done A every before when I felt the guy just wasn't getting the hint! :p I only did it when I felt comfortable enough as B is a lot of fun, but can get frustrating!
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Oh for crying out loud... I'll give you your massage then let's just cross the line do B then do A and the head straight for G!

Bloody women and their games! :rolleyes: :p
 
oddjob62 said:
Would she feel better if she did the "subtle" way and found out after weeks of hint dropping and waiting for "the moment"?
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I'd agree with this! Better to get it out the way than to spend weeks trying and getting emotionally involved only to get turned down. Getting turned down sooner (if thats even gonna happen) is better now than in a few weeks when youre living together!
 
Freefaller said:
Oh for crying out loud... I'll give you your massage then let's just cross the line do B then do A and the head straight for G!

Bloody women and their games! :rolleyes: :p
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nige said:
I’ll say two things.

One – “We're going to be living in the same house for a year” – whoa there Nelly; that sets a very bright red light going in my mind! Getting squishy with someone who you will be living with for the next twelve months is a high risk activity. If it goes wrong, you are so far up the creek your paddle has swum off on its own. Scenarios like ‘rejection… followed by very loud intercourse in the next room with his new lady-friend’ are grim ones to contemplate.

However! If you do genuinely like him, that shouldn’t discourage you completely. It is simply worth being aware of what you’re getting yourself in for.

Two – in light of the above, option ‘A’ could be very messy indeed. Option ‘B’ basically reads like ‘wait and see’ which is probably the best advice; chill out and see what happens. If the opportunity arises, you can go for it, but forcing the matter might scare him away (which would be even worse in light of the fact you’ll be stuck under the same roof).
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This one had made the most sense to me so far...

I like the wait and see...

Basically I know what'll happen, I'll get all cosy and flirty for a week or two, see if he's fine with that, then we'll go out and get ****** at some point (probably in a small group) and I'll get the confidence to corner him and say something.

Then, the next day I'll be scared of seeing him, he'll be all confused, then in another day I'll have punched a pillow/pinched myself/bitten my tongue, and probably ask him for sure. Or just steal a kiss. Somehow.

I dunno. It's going to be fun finding out though :D
 
To seriously answer the question. B is by far the option I would prefer myself. But don't drag it out too long, you want to keep it flirty but you don't want to let things get too "regular" or he'll just get used to it and might not appreciate the subtle advances... I know I have had this problem in the past :o
 
A is better as far as I'm concerned. Here is a little snippet of wisdom for you:

Women aren't like men. Women are not expected to do the chasing (even though some do), and if they hang around long enough, a decent bloke will ask them out. So even if a woman is shy, she can still get a date without too much trouble.

Now consider men. If you have a shy bloke, he will probably miss out on several opportunities because he never takes a risk, takes the plunge and approaches/asks out a girl he likes, even if she likes him, unless he is certain he will receive a favourable response.

So how does this apply in the current situation? Well, if this chap is shy, he may not get the hints and prompting from method B. You could be waiting forever, and meanwhile some ballsy girl approaches him in a more direct manner - he is flattered, craves the attention and may strike up a relationship with the girl - even if he fancies you more.

The above is, of course, a load of ******** I largely made up on the spot. But I know that personally I find it a big turn on to have a girl chasing me. It's unlikely I would have got with my current gf of 15 months had she not made the first move and made it blatantly obvious she was interested - I'd had my eye on her for a while but I'm not the type of guy to take a chance until I'm certain she likes me too.
 
sara said:
Well I'm half Swedish, that's close enough.

I think B into A is sounding like a plan :D
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What's B into A ?

Just get drunk, spill the beans. If he rejects you then its the beer talking :p
 
You're living together so, and this is probably the best advice I've ever given anyone, in the first week it's understandable if you get confused as to which room you're sleeping in. ;)




To be fair people don't ask for my advice much. :(
 
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If a girl says to me "I really like you, let's go out" then I instantly don't like her anymore. It's way too easy, the fun of the chase has gone, and I don't get to pull any power moves on you.
 
B!

It's got to be B, A sounds so naff, B sounds so nice :D Maybe i've watched too many RomCom movies? :p All these guys saying A obviously don't have a romantic bone in their body, you wouldn't wanna be with them would you? If B doesn't work then it's not meant to be IMO.


Mick.
 
Mickey said:
B!

It's got to be B, A sounds so naff, B sounds so nice :D Maybe i've watched too many RomCom movies? :p All these guys saying A obviously don't have a romantic bone in their body, you wouldn't wanna be with them would you? If B doesn't work then it's not meant to be IMO.


Mick.
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Yeah but when you're living with them its different!! You cant distinguish between whats a friendly gesture and whats not as easily ;) Thats the problem with the current problem in my view!
 
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