Bro Code - Was this against it?

yer_averagejoe said:
I guess she could have been more delicate about the situation. I'd say you have done nothing wrong but he's likely to be sore about it. I'd have a chat with him and go from there.
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Aedus said:
You did nothing wrong imo. The issue is between her and him, she came to you, clearly knowing what she wanted and what she was doing, and you had no idea of the situation which occurred when you went to sleep.
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My thoughts are as above.

Don't worry about it, you had a good time! Just don't get into anything serious with her, quit whilst ahead.
 
culvers said:
bros before hos.. you obviously dont consider him a true friend or you wouldn't have risked hurting up for a quick shag.
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You sound like a gangsta wideboy quoting that line.

His 'bro' wasn't ever going to get in there but was/is too much of a fool to realise. He (OP) was in bed and knew nothing about what had been going on and the girl came in for sexy time.

Nothing wrong with that, you cannot bagsy girls you're obsessed with and who don't want you.
 
Davepen said:
Yeah but there are certain rules that need to be adhered to when it comes to bros and hoes :)
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If you'd said you were Dr Dre in the OP then no one would have said that you were literally the worst 'friend' they could ever not hope for.

You're a terrible person. Stop being a terrible person. Also, stop calling women hoes (unless you are Dre in which case I don't know).

tl;dr : your life sounds terrible and you should do something about that.
 
[FnG]magnolia;21882050 said:
If you'd said you were Dr Dre in the OP then no one would have said that you were literally the worst 'friend' they could ever not hope for.

You're a terrible person. Stop being a terrible person. Also, stop calling women hoes (unless you are Dre in which case I don't know).

tl;dr : your life sounds terrible and you should do something about that.
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You never heard the term "bros before hoes"?

Also, who the hell are you? **** off ;)

Sig appropriate it seems :D
 
mattyprice4004 said:
Story time! :p
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not that interesting;), he went out with her briefly at university (a mutual good friend introduced us and she bizarrely went for my ginger mate thinking I was a hippy, bearded scum bag) fast forward 3 years and her and I got together, fast forward another 10 and he was best man at our wedding:)
 
Skidder said:
not that interesting;), he went out with her briefly at university (a mutual good friend introduced us and she bizarrely went for my ginger mate thinking I was a hippy, bearded scum bag) fast forward 3 years and her and I got together, fast forward another 10 and he was best man at our wedding:)
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LOL at scumbag part
 
Skidder said:
not that interesting;), he went out with her briefly at university (a mutual good friend introduced us and she bizarrely went for my ginger mate thinking I was a hippy, bearded scum bag) fast forward 3 years and her and I got together, fast forward another 10 and he was best man at our wedding:)
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Still nice though, awww. You hippy bearded scum bag. :p
 
I wouldn't say you were in the wrong, but It was a insensitive of you to get it with this lass knowing he's pretty much infatuated with her. How would you feel if you really liked someone, tried to hit on her, got rejected and your mate had sex with her an hour or so later? also knowing that he could listen?

That's pretty rough, I feel sorry for the guy. Also "I have been single for a while now, and no sex for 3-4 months can do crazy things to a man." is a **** poor excuse to hurt your friend with.
 
DiscoDave said:
I wouldn't say you were in the wrong, but It was a insensitive of you to get it with this lass knowing he's pretty much infatuated with her. How would you feel if you really liked someone, tried to hit on her, got rejected and your mate had sex with her an hour or so later? also knowing that he could listen?

That's pretty rough, I feel sorry for the guy. Also "I have been single for a while now, and no sex for 3-4 months can do crazy things to a man." is a **** poor excuse to hurt your friend with.
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She then got into my bed a hour or so later when I was asleep, not like I made it happen. Also, I know it isn't an excuse, but surely you how hard it would be to turn it down when it's offered on a plate after nothing for 4 months?

I knew we were being quite flirtatious so I did the right thing and went to bed alone.

Obviously I'd feel bad, I was not debating that :)

And yeah, 'bro code' :D
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No, not primary school, late twenties.

But you know, there are unwritten rules between friends when it comes to women, and crossing these boundaries can be upsetting to people.

It's obviously quite jovial, but us guys have got to stick together :)
 
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Davepen said:
She then got into my bed a hour or so later when I was asleep, not like I made it happen. Also, I know it isn't an excuse, but surely you how hard it would be to turn it down when it's offered on a plate after nothing for 4 months?

I knew we were being quite flirtatious so I did the right thing and went to bed alone.

Obviously I'd feel bad, I was not debating that :)

And yeah, 'bro code' :D
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No, not primary school, late twenties.

But you know, there are unwritten rules between friends when it comes to women, and crossing these boundaries can be upsetting to people.

It's obviously quite jovial, but us guys have got to stick together :)
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Unwritten rules....Aren't these usually called morals?
 
TwsT said:
Bro code what is this primary school?
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It would be seriously great if primary school children were quoting the bro code. Seems to me like the OP is well in the wrong. His mate was/is I love with this girl and he shagged her anyway. I would never do that to any of my friends.
 
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