Broke up with bf

secretspy · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:00

MoNkeE said:
This has got me thinking...

Take one problem (this thread) add another problem and you have a solution!

-RaZ

what, to get drunk or date the bloke in the wig?

well its no to both. though i do drink im on antibiotics at the moment!!!

MoNkeE · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:01

It was a joke.

I'm not going to degrade myself further by explaining it.

-RaZ

asim · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:02

You deserve better.

secretspy · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:05

MoNkeE said:
It was a joke.

I'm not going to degrade myself further by explaining it.

-RaZ

lol

atpbx · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:09

Beansprout said:
Sorry, but you can't criticize her at all I don't think. The guy was clearly a repressed lunatic.

Who's criticizing?

Its a suggestion, if it was a criticizim she would be addressed thus:

"Its your fault, you jump in with both feet far to quickly leaping into bed with them before you even know if they are a repressed lunatic or not".

Roberta · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:10

secretspy said:
hmm trouble is when i was getting to know him he was so nice etc and you can have that with anyone where they are nice then suddenly turn nasty. i think i need to toughen up. no more second chances
anyway its me time right now. sort myself out. make me happy with myself first

I know how hard it is when they start out being so nice. You give them chances because you're waiting for that nice person you first fell for to come back. Unfortunately in the end you find out that that person didn't really exist.

And there are definitely some nice ones out there. They come along when you least expect them!

DannyDan · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:11

secretspy said:
they must be invisible then

Maybe this explains why nice guys finish last

Worthy · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:11

Sorry to hear it, but good riddens. And shame on you for being a doormat for so long. Don't let it happen again.

secretspy · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:21

DannyDan said:
Maybe this explains why nice guys finish last

yup they need a flashing sign over their heads!!

Magic_x_uk · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:22

Sorry about your problems. Now perhaps I could take you out to dinner and cheers you up ?

If only to make you happy again

secretspy · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:33

Magic_x_uk said:
Sorry about your problems. Now perhaps I could take you out to dinner and cheers you up ?

If only to make you happy again

hmm bit far away aren't you. anyway i've already eaten thanks though

TooNice · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:35

Meh, I think it is madness the number of times you let him go back. Stay-away-from-him. Enjoy some hobbies, go out with friends. No I ain't saying it will be easy, but it will get easier as-long-as-you-keep-away.

Andy C · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:44

Nobody deserves to be treated the way you were. You did the right thing in getting out of it, hun, even if it did take you a while...

There are nice blokes out there and there will be one for you. Unfortunately though, there are a whole load of knob heads out there also... which as a bloke I'm ashamed to say!

Anyway, stay single for a bit and enjoy it... then just see what happens.

Andy.

tickle me elmo · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:44

secretspy said:
yup they need a flashing sign over their heads!!

:|

Beansprout · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:46

atpbx said:
Who's criticizing?

Its a suggestion, if it was a criticizim she would be addressed thus:

"Its your fault, you jump in with both feet far to quickly leaping into bed with them before you even know if they are a repressed lunatic or not".

But it implied criticism with the """" marks

Either way, I'm glad you didn't mean it how I thought you did

Besides, it took me FIVE attempts to spell critisizece correctly so I wasn't going to change it!

Neoni · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:49

secretspy said:
are there any blokes out there who dont want to hurt me????

theres someone out there for everyone, chin up, move on from him, he dont deserve any girl.

Neoni · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:52

im still stuck on my ex gf, she is treated like a goddess when she is here, i treat her really well..yet shes my ex gf and i still love her, and im still heart broken. i have to try and move on. im getting there.

you soon realise it when you go out with mates etc etc

Garp · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:52

secretspy said:
...few months later i find texts to girls asking if they want to meet.... month or two later i find texts from girls.... he flirts with some 30 something tart from Essex (typical!) .... couple of months later, texting girls, found texts from girls one saying "i liked the way you gave it to me last night" apparently it was just a massage but i dont think i ever believed him.

At this stage I really would be questioning your motivation in staying with him. He's consistently flirting / cheating on you! You're better off without the slimeball.

we move in together mid feb this year, things are tough. we fight a lot,

Why on earth did you do that following the prior?

are there any blokes out there who dont want to hurt me????

Plenty, but you probably don't even notice them. Nice guys always get overlooked in favour of scum. You've probably even got some male mates that fit into the Nice Guys category who would never even consider doing something so nasty.

wozzizname · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:52

Stay single for a while and work on your self-confidence - that way you''ll be able to deal with bad people in future before they have a chance to hurt you.

secretspy · 22 Apr 2006 at 14:52

TooNice said:
Meh, I think it is madness the number of times you let him go back. Stay-away-from-him. Enjoy some hobbies, go out with friends. No I ain't saying it will be easy, but it will get easier as-long-as-you-keep-away.

yes-I-am-fully-aware-of-that

i hold my hands up ive been a complete idiot and I admit that. but least i can admit it. least im not sitting here saying i still want him back!

Broke up with bf

I haz 4090!

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