Busted relationship/cheating partner

Wiggins said:
omg you live in Wakefield :)

I was born there next to the nuthouse ( Pinderfields ).

Speaks for itself really :rolleyes:
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And the other thing is I went to school in Normanton with a lad who's surname was Wiggins, I don't think Wakefield has a monopoly on nuts though England as a whole.
 
You're doing the right thing and I'm sure most (everyone) here will agree with you. Good luck and don't bail out on the 13th :p
 
HITMAN_LEON said:
She dose know I recorded her, which is my right in my house because she tried to get me introuble for it and got laughed out of the solicitors before she said sorry to me and admitted to what she had done.
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She went to the solicitors? she sounds like a right skank to me, kick her to the kerb girlfriend (in a true Ricki Lake style);):D:D:D:D
 
HITMAN_LEON said:
One play of one of the recordings would get her a criminal record, thats all I will say.
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In what way?

Personally if I were you the first thing I would be doing is going around the family clearing my name and showing them evidence of what has happened. That would be a priority for me.
 
I think she should be kicked out and left to rot.

Shame the law is completely 1-sided :(
 
Richdog said:
In what way?

Personally if I were you the first thing I would be doing is going around the family clearing my name and showing them evidence of what has happened. That would be a priority for me.
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For something she set me up for, I caught the whole setup in a recording and her finding it very funny what she was going to do.
 
if she's setting you up to take the full for things you defiantly need out asap. i mean she's now got her back in the corner she'll be at her most destructive now so i'd watch your back.
 
dustiestrat said:
if she's setting you up to take the full for things you defiantly need out asap. i mean she's now got her back in the corner she'll be at her most destructive now so i'd watch your back.
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It was something she set me up for while she was cheating with the little boy and I asked my solicitor about it he said serious charges would arise if I ever took it to police.
 
HITMAN_LEON said:
For something she set me up for, I caught the whole setup in a recording and her finding it very funny what she was going to do.
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Mate just get all this out in the open, make copies of this proof both of her setting you up and what she did with the other bloke so that there's NO chance of it getting taken is misplaced. Guard it with your life, and for goodness sake spill the beans to all the family.
 
HITMAN_LEON said:
It was something she set me up for while she was cheating with the little boy and I asked my solicitor about it he said serious charges would arise if I ever took it to police.
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I know if would be difficult for your kids, but if she tried to stich up up as badly as what you say then you surely want justice?
 
Richdog said:
Mate just get all this out in the open, make copies of this proof both of her setting you up and what she did with the other bloke so that there's NO chance of it getting taken is misplaced. Guard it with your life, and for goodness sake spill the beans to all the family.
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Copies made and distributed between my 3 brothers, I told all my family and friends, its her family and friends that she told the lies to. She has nothing on me and I have all the evidence so she cant just trash my rig or backup's and make it go away. Also she at one point before she said sorry for anything laughed at me and told the kids I was making stories up in front of her friend who was visiting for the day at the same time as phoneing the soon to be real sorry he ever poke his stick in this wasps nest and laughing down the phone to him. I put a cd in the surround system but just could not press play because the kids were there.
 
why are you leaving your house?

heres what you do whens she goes out to work

change all the locks on doors n windows
chuck all her stuff onto the pavement
play the cd on speakers so the whole neighbourhood can hear (otherwise send to the sun inc full story for £££££)

Nahh but really you should not be the one leaving. She is the one who has done wrong. New locks and dont let the evil hag back in the house. Just tell her to shack up with her 19 yr old toyboy.
 
HITMAN_LEON said:
Copies made and distributed between my 3 brothers, I told all my family and friends, its her family and friends that she told the lies to. She has nothing on me and I have all the evidence so she cant just trash my rig or backup's and make it go away. Also she at one point before she said sorry for anything laughed at me and told the kids I was making stories up in front of her friend who was visiting for the day at the same time as phoneing the soon to be real sorry he ever poke his stick in this wasps nest and laughing down the phone to him. I put a cd in the surround system but just could not press play because the kids were there.
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I think exposing her would do you some justice if she wants to lie all the time it will only get worse for her in the long run. Exposing her and showing her true side will show everyone what she is really like.
 
I dont wan't the house she can stick it, house is nothing to me, my word and my pride are the things that mean the most after my kids. I never break my word because I would loose my pride liars are worthless, thats why I leave if she continues to lie, liars are the lowest form of life, its not the cheating she did that bites me anymore it happened done is done, but its the continual lies that bite and her not allowing me and her to even try and put things back as they could be with a lot of effort and time but it could happen and she won't allow it because she refuses to tell anything but lies.
 
Surfer said:
why are you leaving your house?

heres what you do whens she goes out to work

change all the locks on doors n windows
chuck all her stuff onto the pavement
play the cd on speakers so the whole neighbourhood can hear (otherwise send to the sun inc full story for £££££)

Nahh but really you should not be the one leaving. She is the one who has done wrong. New locks and dont let the evil hag back in the house. Just tell her to shack up with her 19 yr old toyboy.
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I could not put that on my kids, period, I would not do that to them all their friends and neighbours hearing those recordings would crush my kids.
 
Morba said:
As hard as it is, do not move out.
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Regardless of whether you want the house or not dude dont let her have it. I can understand having to give her half or what ever through the courts but it just seems crazy that would would throw money away. If not sign your half to the kids or something so that they can have the money for there future. If things change further down the road your be kicking your self that you just let her have the house.
 
Duggan said:
Regardless of whether you want the house or not dude dont let her have it. I can understand having to give her half or what ever through the courts but it just seems crazy that would would throw money away. If not sign your half to the kids or something so that they can have the money for there future. If things change further down the road your be kicking your self that you just let her have the house.
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Indeed, financial matters may not mean much right now, but having that sorted and protected will help with the practicalities of creating your new life without them (should it come to that).
 
Nitefly said:
I have never been cheated on, but in a marriage or similar relationship I would try and salvage it if it had got to that stage, depending on the circumstances.
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I am in a marriage and if my wife cheated (or I did and got found out) it would be instant game over.

Once a cheater...
 
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