Caught between two ladies...

Don't tell either of them about the other, it's hardly cheating at such an early stage. For all you know you could spend a bit more time with either of them and realise there is nothing there, so you might as well give both a chance..."don't put all your eggs in one basket"

That said, the 26 year old sounds much more appealing.
 
Well. Some interesting comments I see. I am inclined to see them both and see what happens with them. However, the 26yr old does have one minor baggage: She's still living with her ex. They were together for a long time and he was a massive douche towards her during their relationship. But it's she who has to move out, so that's where she's at right now. Other than that, I would really like to take it further with her.

I feel more strongly for her than I do for the MILF. Who by the way is a nurse. Sorry, I forgot to mention that! Lol. That said, I haven't met the MILF so it could go either way.

And for those asking, no the MILF is not after my money. Hell, I don't have any myself to spare. Lol. She hasn't asked me to help her pay for her car. Honestly, some of you! :p

I'll keep these suggestions in mind tho. So keep them coming. :)
 
Just see them both and see how things get on with them both and decide which one. You never know after a couple of dates one or both may not be interested in you.
 
So you have one that needs major money to fix her car and another that needs a place to stay....

Yes I am a cynical bugger...
 
Even if the younger girl didn't look like J Law, I'd lean that way

You don't really wanna raise someone else's kids do you? 1 would be ok but 3 already doesn't leave much room for your own, assuming you want some
 
CK61938 said:
However, the 26yr old does have one minor baggage: She's still living with her ex. They were together for a long time and he was a massive douche towards her during their relationship. But it's she who has to move out, so that's where she's at right now. Other than that, I would really like to take it further with her.
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That's not minor baggage. Mind you neither is 3 kids.
 
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Richie said:
So you have one that needs major money to fix her car and another that needs a place to stay....

Yes I am a cynical bugger...
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You're not alone.

OP needs to practice safe sex. Use condoms and don't tell either of them where you live.

Seriously, no-one should be lstill iving with their ex. Never. A millionty times never if the ex is/was abusive.
 
See both on different nights until you know which you would like to continue with. You are single so nothing wrong with that. Then in the future simply explain to the other that you don't feel you want to continue.

Simples? What am I missing here?

Also what relevance is the car crash? Doesn't she have insurance?
 
I do like how some of you are reading a lot into their situations. One has a car accident and people instantly think she wants me to pay for it. The other still lives with her ex and they instantly think she'll use me just to stay at my place.

Man, you lot. Lol.

anticonscience said:
Ever heard of tabbed browsing?

Makes looking at two porn sites at once possible, probably what the OP's doing. He wants us to decide which one he closes.
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This was the response I was after! It's exactly like that!

It's true tho, I am single so I could still see them both. But I do feel like as though I am cheating on the lass at work even though we are not officially seeing each other.

Yes, anything can happen or nothing can happen with either of them. Our Jennifer lookalike could decide to make a go of things with her ex. The MILF could decide she is no longer in the right frame of mind to date someone. In the end, life is not simple and was never meant to be. We take what we can once the opportunity presents itself. And the way I see it, the lady from work is the one I would want to make a go of things.
 
Hades said:
See both on different nights until you know which you would like to continue with. You are single so nothing wrong with that. Then in the future simply explain to the other that you don't feel you want to continue.

Simples? What am I missing here?

Also what relevance is the car crash? Doesn't she have insurance?
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Yes she does. She is not that stupid and reckless.
 
CK61938 said:
I do like how some of you are reading a lot into their situations. One has a car accident and people instantly think she wants me to pay for it. The other still lives with her ex and they instantly think she'll use me just to stay at my place.

Man, you lot. .
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I daresay the cynicism is borne from experience. I know I'd be asking the same questions!

3 kids is way too much baggage at your age IMO.
 
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