Caught between two ladies...

[ChroniC]

edit/// just seen that this was from 5 months ago... Ignore.



It's perfectly alright to date both for several weeks. This way, you get to know the other side of them, don't burn bridges.

I would just schedule them on different days of the week and make my mind up after 3 or 4 dates each.
As long as you didn't say the "exclusive/girlfriend" word then they can't complain.

 

[blitzwing85]

You can win her around to the geeky stuff. My wife was always a bit into it all but never mad on it when I met her.

1 month of living with me and I was starting to narrow down my Transformers figurine display only to come in one day and find she had put some back up, transformed some into cooler poses and spends half her leisure time reading the comics, lore, fanfiction etc etc.

I'm almost annoyed she now likes a lot of it more than me lol

 

[Washout]

To those worried about her being controlling... I think it's fairly normal once you've moved someone in for the bachelor items in a bedroom to come down. Whether they be movie, football posters or whatever. Especially if they have little interest in it. They should go to the office/man cave where they now belong!

 

[Arsonist]

Oh, this thread is 5 months old. Nonetheless, glad you're happy OP! And women will always try and make a house their home, just let it happen while retaining as much man-stuff as possible!

Sounds like my younger days as a lothario (last year) when no less than 6 ladies were actively pursuing me.
Ex girlfriend, 4 coursemates (2 of whom outright said they wanted to sleep with me, the other 2 saying they fancied me), and a girl who I met at my cousin and aunts joint party attended by mostly millionaires and RAF fighter pilots (and 1 billionaire). This girl turned out to be everything I'd ever wanted, and am now happily in a (long distance) relationship with her, and who I can honestly see myself marrying and having kids with. What a year that was!

My only advice is to go with whomever you think you will be most compatible with. As for letting the MILF down, just be honest with her, letting her know you no longer wish to pursue the relationship as you've just started seeing someone. It's the best thing to do.

 

[Thekwango]

hold up.....you start dating ~1st December and move her in ~end of February?

you said you asked her to move in but didn't expect her to say yes - fair enough after 3 months or so - but she jumped at the chance.

wishing you all the best dude, genuinely.

but I get the notion you're being rolled as the get out of ex bf's, then aunts/uncles house.

hope I'm wrong though

 

[CK61938]

hold up.....you start dating ~1st December and move her in ~end of February?

you said you asked her to move in but didn't expect her to say yes - fair enough after 3 months or so - but she jumped at the chance.

wishing you all the best dude, genuinely.

but I get the notion you're being rolled as the get out of ex bf's, then aunts/uncles house.

hope I'm wrong though

You are wrong. The ex was a total douche! Controlling and abusive.

Everyone else, thank you for the support! Don't worry, I still have man cave in this flat. And when we do get a bigger house, I'll make sure I will get an even bigger man cave!

 

[CK61938]

Also, for those asking for pics, there's a reason I have my Twitter and Google accounts in my sig.

 

[RoboCod]

Green eyes dark hair? Cute

Also, it looks like you ought to get in the gym rats thread and get on the old lifting train. With dat der excellent Base of yours you could be ripped!

 

[Thekwango]

You are wrong. The ex was a total douche! Controlling and abusive.

Everyone else, thank you for the support! Don't worry, I still have man cave in this flat. And when we do get a bigger house, I'll make sure I will get an even bigger man cave!

sorry you get me wrong, I honest to god hope all is good and I'm glad your happy. but it's hell of a big step to be undertaking after just 3 months. most girls I've known would have ran a mile had a bf asked them to move in after such a short time. just seems like your girl has a lot to gain by saying yes, hopefully you do to buddy.

all the best for the future

 

[CK61938]

Green eyes dark hair? Cute

Also, it looks like you ought to get in the gym rats thread and get on the old lifting train. With dat der excellent Base of yours you could be ripped!

That's her! Lol.

I go to the gym, yes. But more because I got into cosplay for the first time this year. If you noticed the Superman costume I was sporting. Lol. Tho I am not actually looking to get ripped. Just enough to look "decent".

 

[CK61938]

sorry you get me wrong, I honest to god hope all is good and I'm glad your happy. but it's hell of a big step to be undertaking after just 3 months. most girls I've known would have ran a mile had a bf asked them to move in after such a short time. just seems like your girl has a lot to gain by saying yes, hopefully you do to buddy.

all the best for the future

Fully appreciate it dude. I'll be honest, when I did ask her, I genuinely thought she would run a mile. But she's very happy and I am very happy too. Also, she doesn't really have a lot to gain because I rent the flat under my name and she doesn't want it to be a joint thing. At least not until we get somewhere bigger. Lol.