Poll: Cheated on?

Cheated on?

  • Yes

    Votes: 243 43.5%

  • No

    Votes: 316 56.5%
  • Total voters
    559

0Shorty

0Shorty

0Shorty

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So i found out last night my girl cheated on me while she was away. Meh, thats that kicked to the curb. But this question is mainly aimed at lads to lasses - how many blokes have been cheated on by there girls? Is this common? If a mod could poll this id appreciated it :).
 
How old are you and how long have you been going out with her? When I was in my late teens, cheating was pretty much the norm, in my early 20s it was done on the sly, now in my 30s it is only done when drunk.
 
Im 20, she was 18. And i would love to punch her in the overies, but shes not even worth that. She went away for a week and it happened whilst away. The way i found even makes me laugh, she had the nerve to use my own laptop on msn (which i log all conversations:P) and talk to the guy. I knew something was up with her since she got back so i checked the logs.

I was talking about my mates from uni about this but in perticular women cheating on men as apposed to the other way around, and i was surprised to find that they all seemed to think it was much more predomenantly women cheating on men as apposed to the other way around. Thats just why im curious, to see if people feel thats the case.
//edit we had been going out 3 months. She had been practically living with me for a month of that.
 
I've had two girlfriends, both were year long relationships, got cheated on twice. That's why I try not to get into relationships any more, **** buddies all the way :p.

Out of experience though, I've known more guys to be cheated on than have cheated themselves.
 
0Shorty said:
I was talking about my mates from uni about this but in perticular women cheating on men as apposed to the other way around
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Are you mates mostly blokes by any chance? :D I suspect if you put the same question to some women they'd say the opposite.

I've never been cheated on as far as I'm aware...
 
Andelusion said:
Are you mates mostly blokes by any chance? :D I suspect if you put the same question to some women they'd say the opposite.

I've never been cheated on as far as I'm aware...
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Actually no, i have a range of both, and youd be surprised the number of female friends i have that said they new females that had done it.
 
A wise man once said

No-one has ever been cheated on.... until they find out


Dont know how wise he was, or what happened to him after he walked out in front of a bus... but still
 
I know more guys who have been cheated on than vice-versa.


There are interesting statistics that show somewhere around 10% of the UK population are not genetically related to their father as their mother committed adultery.
 
I hate the entire cheating thing. Either you are with someone or you aren't. If you are with someone, have the respect to not sleep with someone else behind their back.

You wanna shag someone else, break up with your current person first.
 
Yes and the next day I got her to carry all the rubbish out to the bins and told her to jump in with it because her ass was dumped. Not a nice feeling at all and it does usually effect your next relationship.
 
yes by my gf in uni, but that was over long before that, it was just the point where we both ended it.

KaHn
 
0Shorty said:
So i found out last night my girl cheated on me while she was away. Meh, thats that kicked to the curb. But this question is mainly aimed at lads to lasses - how many blokes have been cheated on by there girls? Is this common? If a mod could poll this id appreciated it :).
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Same thing happened to me last week mate and i posted on here, read my thread:

http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17755812

She didn't try to hide anything, and she only kissed another guy, she told me about it right away.

I broke up with her regardless, after much deliberation.

Sorry to hear mate, its gutting when it happens whatever age you are
 
I was cheated on by my now ex and yeh it does ring true more of the guys i know have had a girl cheat on them rather than the other way round
 
.o/ Raises hand!

6 months in her ex came round to drop off some of her stuff. Didnt think anything of it as trusted her and had no reason to be suspicious as we were getitng on great and no lack in the bedroom dept, etc :p She is the type of person to write everything down, thoughts, etc. Silly woman left an email she sent her ex a week later in a word document on her laptops desktop. She'd been re-writing it and so had been keeping it in a word document whilst she came up with the "perfect" email. Last mistake she ever made before I kicked her to the curb.

1 month on and she still messes with my head saying she loves me, it was all a mistake, she wants me back, wants to come down etc, etc - all the while she lives only 20mins drive from her ex's house and claims nothing is going on. Long distance thing for me now as she moved up there.

Was stupid the other week and decided to forgive her only for her to tell me it wouldnt work out long distance after all!! Cue me ignoring her and yesterday cue her calling up again saying she loves me, blah blah. Rinse and repeat until I get her number blocked!!! :D
 
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