Poll: Cheated on?

Cheated on?

  • Yes

    Votes: 243 43.5%

  • No

    Votes: 316 56.5%
  • Total voters
    559
Linoge said:
Yes and the next day I got her to carry all the rubbish out to the bins and told her to jump in with it because her ass was dumped. Not a nice feeling at all and it does usually effect your next relationship.
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I drove 10 miles with everything shed ever given me, and everything that was important to us or that she owned, walked up to her front door and said, "I log all conversations on my computer, have a nice life." I droped them on her doorstep and drove away. Ive removed every trace of her from my life. I think it probably will affect my next relationship aswell, i wont be as trusting for one.
 
Dracata said:
Same thing happened to me last week mate and i posted on here, read my thread:

http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17755812

She didn't try to hide anything, and she only kissed another guy, she told me about it right away.

I broke up with her regardless, after much deliberation.

Sorry to hear mate, its gutting when it happens whatever age you are
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Appreciated mate, il give it a read.
 
Women seek attention constantly. If another man is giving her more attention than the one she's currently with, eventually she will cheat.
 
yes walked in on my uni gf shagging her ex. took her back /needs slapping!

she did it again and then we broke up. she now has a bf that cant get it up due to stress which make me laugh.

im happily married now and i dont think my wife could even think off seeing someone else.



rotters
 
0Shorty said:
I drove 10 miles with everything shed ever given me, and everything that was important to us or that she owned, walked up to her front door and said, "I log all conversations on my computer, have a nice life." I droped them on her doorstep and drove away. Ive removed every trace of her from my life. I think it probably will affect my next relationship aswell, i wont be as trusting for one.
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Yeah I know how that feels, as much as your instincts tell you to be suspicious of your next gf, don't let it. The only true way of moving on is to open your trust again, don't create a barrier as trust issues will practically end most relationships. Just chalk it down as experience, and be more wary of it in the future but don't let it hold you back from having another relationship.
 
it seems to me from friends/aqquaintances experience, that there is a trend that men are more likely to get ****ed and end up kissing someone in a club, whereas women are more likely to "actually" cheat, like having a 2nd relationship

No swearing

Gilly
 
An Ex dumped me over MSN!! i mean MSN!!! thats low and then a few days later i found out she had been seeing some one behind my back, looking back at it , it explains her behavior for a while prior to us splitting up.

Still i loved it when she came crawling back 2 months later and i just told her to get lost :D
 
Linoge said:
Yeah I know how that feels, as much as your instincts tell you to be suspicious of your next gf, don't let it. The only true way of moving on is to open your trust again, don't create a barrier as trust issues will practically end most relationships. Just chalk it down as experience, and be more wary of it in the future but don't let it hold you back from having another relationship.
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Never been truer words, i got hurt in my just gone relationship because i put my trust in her, but that doesn't mean i won't trust my next girlfriend, its all life experience. There's no point in a relationship if you don't give your full trust.
 
0Shorty said:
I drove 10 miles with everything shed ever given me, and everything that was important to us or that she owned, walked up to her front door and said, "I log all conversations on my computer, have a nice life." I droped them on her doorstep and drove away. Ive removed every trace of her from my life. I think it probably will affect my next relationship aswell, i wont be as trusting for one.
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Ouch, sounds like you're pretty hurt.

Yup, some girls cheat, but there's still plenty out there who don't.
 
Cheated on twice (that i know of) by the same ****.

I shouldnt have gone back the first time tbh, but ah well, you learn these things.
 
You'll find it very difficult to find someone who has never been cheated on. Most often these will only be people that have never had a partner.

My ex-fiancee screwed me up big time.

Dracata said:
There's no point in a relationship if you don't give your full trust.
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Trust needs to be earned...
 
Dracata said:
Never been truer words, i got hurt in my just gone relationship because i put my trust in her, but that doesn't mean i won't trust my next girlfriend, its all life experience. There's no point in a relationship if you don't give your full trust.
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I completely agree with both. Thats why i put almost blind trust in her, because i believe well if you cant trust someone what have you got. But then again, i had never been cheated on before. I think it will be a while before il be able to do that agian. Anyway, any chance of poll on this mods? still curious about numbers...
 
I've been cheated on by my ex with my best mate.. That hurt a lil bit. :p

But I'm only 16, these things happen.
 
Gilly said:
Trust needs to be earned...
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Nah trust is there until it is lost.

You can trust someone quite easily but you will never trustthem again if they break that.

KaHn
 
Blue Cypher said:
An Ex dumped me over MSN!! i mean MSN!!! thats low and then a few days later i found out she had been seeing some one behind my back, looking back at it , it explains her behavior for a while prior to us splitting up.

Still i loved it when she came crawling back 2 months later and i just told her to get lost :D
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Just noticed this. Man that is harsh. Good on you though.
 
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