Poll: Cheated on?

Cheated on?

  • Yes

    Votes: 243 43.5%

  • No

    Votes: 316 56.5%
  • Total voters
    559
I've been going out with my gf for 2 years and a bit. I trust her pretty well but even so I've been jealous and suspicious a few times. I'm sure everyone has no matter how much they say they trust a person.

Went out with a girl for a month before and it seemed to be going good. We were out one night and she asked me to mind her handbag while she went to the loo with one of her girlfriends. She ended up outside in a guys car checking it out and then ended up snogging one of three guys in the back of the car. And another girl I went over to england to see after getting on great with her for 9 months on the net went off with a girl in a club on the third and last night I was over there with her. That was after we'd had a great 3 days together. In bed and out of bed. Though I think she was just a confused teenager (as was I) at the time.

All in all I'm still quite sour and not fully trusting of anyone anymore. I love my current gf to bits and I do trust her but I can still get jealous and suspicious at the most random of times.
 
I've cheated on my wife on more than one occasion, but to my knowledge she has never cheated on me (thats what she tells me when we occasionally talk about such things, she just isn't the sort!) Apparently, if a woman truely loves you, she wont cheat on you. Whereas a man will probably cheat if he thinks he'll get away with it.

Good on the OP for driving her stuff to her and hitting her with the 'have a nice life' ! That apparently really gets to them. Sounds like good riddence really. If you cant trust her to go away for the week, when can you trust her?
 
benktlottie said:
I've cheated on my wife on more than one occasion, but to my knowledge she has never cheated on me (thats what she tells me when we occasionally talk about such things, she just isn't the sort!) Apparently, if a woman truely loves you, she wont cheat on you. Whereas a man will probably cheat if he thinks he'll get away with it.

Good on the OP for driving her stuff to her and hitting her with the 'have a nice life' ! That apparently really gets to them. Sounds like good riddence really. If you cant trust her to go away for the week, when can you trust her?
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Its just a shame that up until now i have had blind trust in my girlfriends. Until you have doubt then im a firm believer of trust the person to the full. Or at least i was. Now who knows.
 
Been with mine for 8 years now. Met when I was 18 and she was 15, never looked back and I trust her.

I could tell we where made for each other as soon as I saw her. There where also some strange goings on and coincidences that I found rather pulled us closer together.

1. I lived at 36 she lived at 37 same street
2. My mum and dad knew her mum and dad 20 years ago
3. around 10 years ago I met her at a party that my uncle held and didnt even know.


all this and I happen to meet her at the local shops and have never looked back. getting married next year.
 
Well we did sort of stray a bit younger, that worked both ways, never shagged anyone and i'm quite sure she didn't either.
Since I was 16 i've been with her, was without her for the best part of 2 years while she studied in canada, still with her today both 27.
 
KaHn said:
Being parinoid is just normal, its just used as a self defence thing for me now, I have to work very hard not to be overly parinoid.

KaHn
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Yea I think that's how I see it too. I was too trusting with other girls. I don't think I'll ever be able to blindly trust someone again.
 
Shoseki said:
I hate the entire cheating thing. Either you are with someone or you aren't. If you are with someone, have the respect to not sleep with someone else behind their back.

You wanna shag someone else, break up with your current person first.
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My thoughts exactly.
 
Wizzkidy said:
Been with mine for 8 years now. Met when I was 18 and she was 15, never looked back and I trust her.

I could tell we where made for each other as soon as I saw her. There where also some strange goings on and coincidences that I found rather pulled us closer together.

1. I lived at 36 she lived at 37 same street
2. My mum and dad knew her mum and dad 20 years ago
3. around 10 years ago I met her at a party that my uncle held and didnt even know.


all this and I happen to meet her at the local shops and have never looked back. getting married next year.
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You met 8 years ago when she was 15 yet you went to a party 10 years ago and met her at 13 in that case you were 16.

The plot thickens ;)
 
Wizzkidy said:
Been with mine for 8 years now. Met when I was 18 and she was 15, never looked back and I trust her.

I could tell we where made for each other as soon as I saw her. There where also some strange goings on and coincidences that I found rather pulled us closer together.

1. I lived at 36 she lived at 37 same street
2. My mum and dad knew her mum and dad 20 years ago
3. around 10 years ago I met her at a party that my uncle held and didnt even know.


all this and I happen to meet her at the local shops and have never looked back. getting married next year.
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Congratulations :).
 
Cheated on by one that I know of (we'd been together for 4 years), I deserved it entirely though, the relationship should have ended 6 months prior to that. I did also cheat on her shortly afterwards, during the 'we can try to make it work again' stage.

Moral of the story, if it's not working well, get out :).
 
Cheating seems to be pretty common these days, half my friends have cheated on their girlfriends. One even had a mini affair while he was away for a weekend, we all know and his GF still doesn't. One girl i know cheats and thinks its ok since her philosophy is "What he doesn't know won't hurt him".

Sad state of affairs the current climate of thinking in relationships if you ask me.
 
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