Cheating Ex.. how would you react to this?

It's someone else's big day so don't do anything that causes a scene. I would be polite at all times if I came into contact with them. But equally I would try to sit away from them and would not approach them. But if circumstances dictate you are near enough to them to say hello then I would do that, again politely, and then move on. I wouldn't be shaking his hand even if it is offered.

The best revenge is to live a great life and it sounds like you re doing that.

Also consider hiring an expensive supercar to turn up to the car park in :D (joke)
 
Oh god, totally ignore, I was best man at my mates wedding. He invited someone whos wife worked for my dad and stole some money, (pocketed cash from invoices, which then magically appeared when questioned about it) and then when fired she sent a weird letter saying this is slander and you cant advertise my job yet, a disgusting individual really, who was beyond weird.

I was slightly worried but it was fine, I pretended like neither of them existed.
 
I've been to family events where I've loathed some of the other people there. Just ignore them, as they will probably ignore you.
 
I don't think there is any need to be polite to them, while I wouldn't look to start an argument I'd simply ignore them - I think treating them with contempt if they do approach is fine though. If you don't like them then you don't need to fake anything and pretend to be friendly etc... none of this needs to cause a scene.
 
Just ignore them. Your friend and his daughter's christening is a thousand times more important than some skank and you know it. It's your friend's day, not yours or anybody else.

Leave as soon as proper etiquette allows and forget about it.
 
It's been nearly 3 years. No point being bitter about it now.

Just man up and be "friendly" so you don't cause a scene and ruin someone else's day.
 
First thing is do is find out why the **** she was paying £80 a month for a mobile contract!

I'd want a platinum Galaxy S12 with 500GB of data per month for that kind of tarrif!
 
StevieP said:
First thing is do is find out why the **** she was paying £80 a month for a mobile contract!

I'd want a platinum Galaxy S12 with 500GB of data per month for that kind of tarrif!
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She was working away from home constantly, presumably ringing him constantly too and using her minutes?

I never checked her bills, but I did find out she booked a holiday the following march whilst still with me and was ordering him take aways from Just Eat whilst "away with work".

I'll just be polite :)
 
Chandler_90 said:
She was working away from home constantly, presumably ringing him constantly too and using her minutes?

I never checked her bills, but I did find out she booked a holiday the following march whilst still with me and was ordering him take aways from Just Eat whilst "away with work".

I'll just be polite :)
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Don't be a mug - they're both clearly a pair of scumbags who don't deserve the proverbial off your shoes. Cut them dead and if they so much as make eye contact with you:

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Arrive late, kick the doors of the church open whilst screaming at the top of your lungs. Grab new-fella in a reverse choke hold, drag him to the font and proceed to half drown him. Kick the ex in the fork and then sit down like nothing's happened.

Or alternatively, be polite and keep interaction to a minimum.
 
fatiain said:
Arrive late, kick the doors of the church open whilst screaming at the top of your lungs. Grab new-fella in a reverse choke hold, drag him to the font and proceed to half drown him. Kick the ex in the fork and then sit down like nothing's happened.

Or alternatively, be polite and keep interaction to a minimum.
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This.
 
I wouldn't react because i would never be in that situation financially.

I'd stay single but then those who want a partner better be careful with things like this.

Plus i would never put my self on the line as it would affect my behaviour like with op with rage i think or with any other funny behavior like revenge i wouldn't put my self on the line to become like that.

Am happy by not giving a damn with nothing on the line then those who can't are worst off then my self.
 
lltfdaniel said:
I wouldn't react because i would never be in that situation financially.

I'd stay single but then those who want a partner better be careful with things like this.
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Being in a relationship isn't easy, regardless there are always bills to pay and this which need doing.

Furnishing a house for example is very expensive, especially after just purchasing the house along with all the legal fees etc (I paid fees on 2 purchases then got outbid on both, back to back, before buying my current place) then you have any social events that need to be attended which also require cash.. car/travel expenses and holidays too.

Granted I had a large amount of debt, in my eyes at least, but I thought I had a decent amount of time to pay it off.. which it turned out I didn't!

Should have got a card in both names, live and learn!
 
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