Do you know any gay people

I know one openly gay chap. Not camp really but he is a perverted sicko. Gets up to all manner of unspeakable things in public parks.

I did know another guy at school who was gay. He had not come out at the time but you could tell. Promising piano player. I found out last year that he had been really struggling with his sexuality and had decided to take his own life, by stabbing himself in the heart with a pair of scissors. :(
 
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I can think of at least a dozen people that I know off hand, and probably many more too. Guess having a few of them being very good friends of mine means they introduce me to other friends of theirs, several of whom are also gay, unsurprisingly.

I also know several people who have been at one point or other unsure of their sexuality - in fact, I'm sure I (and probably many other people on here) know more than that, but only particularly close friends tend to bring up that kind of issue.
 
not as far as I m aware and I don't intend on finding out

even if i did have 'gay freinds' I m fine with it as long as thier sick games don't invole me.

as its sick.
 
I live in Brighton... guess.

We have a men only gay sauna ffs, it's literally just a place for gays to go and have sex, and is even advertised as such (check the website to be horrified! (and amused) ).

But I will say this, when you're out having drinks mid week and everywhere else is closed, late opening times of gay clubs are a serious advantage :D Terrible music though, generally we just go to mock and **** tease :p And always with girls.

I do have gay friends but in general they aren't what I'd call close friends, something about the affected soft voice/lisp and mannerisms just strikes me as dishonest, and because I'm fairly observant of social behaviour I can easily see when they are moving on one of my straight friends, even when no one else can, it can be very trying as they usually get possessive.
 
is that your way of coming out? ...:p

That was actually genius, I like your thinking there.

For all of you saying what's the big deal.... there is none. This is GD, we talk trivial here, remember.

I don't know any gay people and I don't think any guys who were in my year at school are gay. There is one girl but I don't really know her.
 
A friend of mine is gay.

Doesn't matter, really.

This

Also got gay neighbours and they are quite easily the nicest people down the street, even with my own family accounted for :(

In all seriousness though, its not an issue unless you make it one.
 
I think the OP wrote that badly so we would all say we are "confused" implying we might be gay too.

As for teh question, I know a few gay guys but a lot more girls are comfortable with coming out or being bi. So what? Do I get brownie points? I have a black friend too you know!
 
im not against guys being gay, but a lot of them these days are just jumping on the bandwagon, to be accepted and have a social group of friends, etc.

you know when you have these trends, 10 years ago it was goths, they appeared out of nowhere and before you knew it half the school was one, even mates you used to hang around with and were cool, now they were goths.

well i have seen this happening with gays and hopefully the fad will soon die out, but expect to see a lot more gays in the future, there were loads of them at uni.
 
well i have seen this happening with gays and hopefully the fad will soon die out

I wouldn't hold your breath... most social scientists and commentators predict exactly the opposite will happen. As the line between the two sexes blurs and we become more androgynous as a race and more accepting of same sex relationships, more and more men and women will chose a relationship with the same sex because of the heightened compatibility and ease it represents.

I'm not saying I back this theory, I'm just saying it's out there.
 
I think that's more about social norms than reality. Here and now, it's more acceptable for women to be bi than for men to be bi. In a sense, bisexuality in men isn't really acknowledged. I saw it pithily summed up somewhere - suck one dick and you're gay.

If a Bi woman has had lesbian relationships in the past, that makes her 'hotter' to men.

If a Bi man has had gay relationships in the past, that makes women feel disgusted.
 
There's actually a lot of evidence to suggest that we're all bi, it's just social conditioning that defines our 'sexuality'.

Actually very incorrect.

There is however plenty of evidence regarding the bi - potentiality of a zygote to differentiate into either a male or female regardless of having an XY or XX chromosome based on genetic errors during meiosis with the sex determining region of the Y chromosome being deleted from a Y chromosome, or added onto an X, or with less severity when smaller sections of the Y chromosome such as that which codes for Dihydrotestosterone are deleted so that a male child is born with female genitalia, but then develops male genitals and growth during puberty.

Then there are a lot of *theories* applying this knowledge to hypothesize that sexuality may be similar, with all Zygotes starting out Bisexual and developing their sexuality based on similar hormone variations during fetal development, but there is no solid proof of evidence to what actually causes sexuality or a persons self percieved gender (transexuality) to vary.

For some reason, the only part of my Biology degree that I remember vividly is all the stuff about penises and vaginas.
 
Tbh it's pretty impressive how far tolerance has come even in the last decade to the extent it's pretty much at the level of widespread acceptance now (a slight, but important different). Good to see really, now they just need to get over the big religious hang up over the word 'marriage' and do away with the 'civil partnership' stop gap nonsense.

You mean, soon enough Religion will have died out and we'll only have civil partnerships, I agree, its time to stop this religion nonsense.

Personally I hate this whole gay people for marraige thing, its fighting for fightings sake, religon is pretty anti gay, despite a few people who will come in and say "you haven't read the bible, I did, its not anti gay", the bible is nothing, a work of fiction religion is the group of people and how they think in the majority which is anti gay.

Its like fighting the KKK to allow a black member, legally, maybe a landmark case that would be funny and maybe even worthwhile, but no black person actually wants to be a member of the KKK, its fighting a group of idiots for no real reasons.

Let the religious idiots do their own thing, let it die out on its own.
Be happy with civil partnerships, that actually mean something, are born out of the population coming up with a legal way for people to be joined and not a made up fantasty way for people to be joined under the church, the former means a lot more, firstly that society has accepted you, the later, that a mass delusional figure has approved of you.

I've known quite a lot of gay guys in my life, one guy I grew up with, well, we're all convinced(and have been since he was about 15) that he's gay, he doesn't seem to have worked it out yet though :p

Knew a bunch of gay people at uni, a couple at school, but realistically its just people feel safer coming out later on in life, or just don't know who they are till they are a bit older, hence it being more "common" at uni.

I find gay people kissing as physically repulsive as a really ugly man and woman kissing, I'm not attracted to men, or unattractive women and don't particularly find them copulating appealing, more gross, kind of like your parents kissing. Thats why women being bi is more acceptable, when its two hot chicks, woman and men find them attractive, its all good, however two ugly women kissing is just as bad.

No different to breast feeding in public, 100% unacceptable when its a fat chav mother whose had 12 kids and is using a pair of udders, when its an uber hot fitter with her baps out in public, completely different story :p
 
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