No, people are idiots if they decided to get into debt without realising how to control it. If you can't drive you wouldn't drive a car on the road, if you did most people would call you an idiot...
But in this case it's more like the person couldn't drive, so booked lessons with a driving instructor, who after one lesson tells them they are a brilliant driver and books them into a test, knowing full well they can't drive. Why shouldn't they believe the instructor?
 
	 
  
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 The rest of your post is irrelevant as I was only talking about this point
 The rest of your post is irrelevant as I was only talking about this point 
 
 
		
 
 
		 
 
		 Your original post made it sound like you were placing all the blame on the borrower. (And that grinds my gears
 Your original post made it sound like you were placing all the blame on the borrower. (And that grinds my gears  
 
		