I don't post here much but always read daily. I would like to to wish you luck with everything as I know what you are going through.
In July this year I was diagnosed with bowel cancer with knocked me for six, especially when I found out by accident from the head nurse whilst going for some pre op checks. I have already been through 3 sets of Chemo, been rushed into hospital with a dangerous blockage which meant I had to have a stent fitted to allow things to pass and have an operation booked to remove a 3rd of my bowel on the 10th of November.
After my operation I have a recovery time of approx 5-6 weeks then have 18 more weeks of Chemo.
I have fully come to terms with it and thankfully it is what they class a cureable, my wife, kids, family and friends have been a brilliant support and they also appreciated that i didn't want to be smothered and just to get on with life as best I can.
My treatment is also at the Royal Marsden and I cannot believe how good the hospital is in every way. The staff have been outstanding and never rush you when they are with you.
If you need a chat, PM me sometime but if you are similar to me, chatting about issues isn't something I need to do as my mind is set that this will be sorted by some point around May next year (fingers crossed).
One last thing that may help is that Chemo really isn't as scary as it's made out to be on TV, the worst side affect I have had is a sickness feeling but never ill.
Sorry just read you post again and seen that the tumors are not confirmed as cancerous, so I hope that results come back clear after your op.