Most people just want a car to drive to the shops and work, not lap the Nurburgring with a new fastest lap.And they will likely be insanely expensive. There is no way they will be able to make lightweight EVs either.
Also, Bill Gates once said "640K ought to be enough for anybody.", your post feels like another one of those fails….. but less famous

. I think they're all someway off, depending on the spec of the car (the largest wheels will be somewhat heavier than smallest for example). Getting weight down without sacrificing rigidity is key and for that more exotic materials might be required - £££. I think Tesla are trying something with the battery forming part of the chassis (next Model 3?) so that'll be good to see how much it saves weight. Rigidity is rarely talked about however but can affect how a car drives and the suspension setups that can be used